More Sex before or after college

Rising senior, hopefully wrapping up recruiting soon. I’m wondering if I should try to lock down a girl. There are definitely a lot of options that, if I get my shit together, could lead to fruitful relationships. Or should I just try to have as many high quality hookups as I can? Reality is setting in, and I’m scared for my love and sex life post graduation, especially while working grueling hours.

So this poses the question and has me thinking: older monkeys, did you have more sex pre or post grad?

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People with long-term, stable relationships seem to do very well in banking over the long haul. Almost every associate at my firm had a long-term partner, fiancé, or was married. It becomes difficult to build something new once the years start coming and they don't stop coming.

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2 factors: your job and your city.

NYC > others. SF = good luck.

And it goes without saying that a job with humane WLB is necessary in order to have the time to do anything outside of work. In consulting, expect M-Th to be totally shot, and in banking, expect M-Sat to be totally shot. Neither job is very conducive to a thriving dating life. Of course, YMMV depending on firm and group.

 

I'd chill. Take it easy and get some hookups here and there. It's when you're in your late 20s that you should lock in on trying to find someone. You'll also have more time then, depending on what you lateral into, or if you stay in banking. 

 

My guy it don’t matter since before or after you didn’t get enough to not make a post on wso. If you got to ask you you clear ain’t getting enough regardless. 

 

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