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Flirting or flexing your fraternity status during networking is not the way to go. Based on the most helpful WSO content, keeping things professional is critical. Here’s why:

1. Flirting Risks: Many women (and men) in finance view flirting in a professional setting as inappropriate and potentially off-putting. It can create discomfort and harm your reputation. As highlighted in WSO threads, even subtle flirtation can be seen as a "Risk" in the workplace. Instead, focus on building genuine, professional connections.

2. Fraternity Flexing: While being in a good fraternity might be a point of shared interest with some, it’s not a universally impressive credential in professional networking. Instead of flexing, use your fraternity experience to highlight transferable skills like leadership, teamwork, or event organization.

3. What to Do Instead:

   • Be Charismatic, Not Flirty: Show confidence and charm through your demeanor, not through flirtation. A friendly smile and engaging conversation go a long way.
   • Focus on Value: Demonstrate your interest in their career journey, ask thoughtful questions, and show genuine curiosity about their experiences.
   • Keep It Professional: Networking is about building long-term, professional relationships. Avoid anything that could be misinterpreted as unprofessional or self-serving.

Remember, the goal is to leave a lasting impression as a serious, career-driven individual—not as someone trying to impress with looks or social affiliations.

Sources: Networking 101 – 8 tips from a “non-target” school student, okay to flirt while networking ?, Networking as a woman - my experience and questions