"Random" LinkedIn Requests

What are your opinions on cold adding with someone on Linkedin who is a "2nd connection" but that you don't know at all? But would like to develop a relationship with that person for networking purposes. Is this something that really should not be done period? And for those in the industry, how do you react when an undergraduate that didn't go to the school you went to tries and connect with you?

Scenarios: As far as networking on LinkedIn goes, I have connected with some people in PE/VC that I don't necessarily know but have talked to and asked general questions and would like to (at some point) leverage that into a working relationship. Is that kind of frowned upon or is that acceptable? If so, would it be best to always leave a small note beforehand?

EDITED: 8/25/17

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"CreditMadrid" And for those in the industry, how do you react when an undergraduate that didn't go to the school you went to tries and connect with you?
If it's a chick with "bulging brackets" there are no second thoughts about accepting the invite.
Welcome to the jungle.
 

Why not send an email first? From my experience, people aren't overly fond of random kids adding them out of the blue. I'd follow the standard networking approach.

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The usual email>phone>coffee procedure. Tons of guides here on WSO and elseshere. After all, networking is all about creating relationships. For the email formats, check the WSO Company Database. LinkedIn is useful for the initial "scan", aka professional stalking, of your networking candidates. Cold adding, and even messaging via InMail, rarely works and I'm surprised you even had some success off of it.

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I'm a VC. If a rando who's like an IB or consultant adds me with hopes of "breaking into VC" I might add them if they seem legit. If an undergrad junior or senior from my college adds me I'll probably accept. If I accept your linkedin request from either of these situations there's 50% chance I'll take time to chat with them - really depends on my schedule that week/month and your credibility level.

If you're in high school, a fresh/sophmore, or you didn't go to my school there's a very low percentage chance of me accepting your invitation. Like you're 19 and wanna be a VC? Of course you do, it's a cool fucking job. Now go do something tangible about it.

Just being honest.

 

Largely agree. Worst people are guys who sent you an invitation, you accept and then they wait for 6 months and at some point send you message being all salty that you never messaged them. I guess I missed the announcement where networking was reduced to just sending LinkedIn invitations.

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