Robot Culture at Work

Just graduated this past December and began my first job in finance about 5 weeks ago. I feel like a robot with my daily routine/office culture and I'm not sure how normal this is. At my office, everyone sits at their cubicle 10 hours a day, including eating lunch there. There are no meetings or anything to cause anyone to have to move. Furthermore, all communication is done via email. I seriously have gone full work days without speaking to another human. Everyone keeps headphones in making it impossible to have conversation. Is this normal or am I in a bad situation? I feel like I am going to get sick, or lonely I guess, of the routine here.

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Your situation sounds a bit more secluded than normal, but cubicle life is known for being a low, hellish hum. For years and years. Most people hate it and hate their lives, but they don't know what else to do or are too scared to and keep adding expenses and children to the roster, so they're stuck. So they just do their work and listen to some guys talk about football on youtube with their earbuds. And put on 1.7lbs a year eating Panda every day.

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"GoldenCinderblock" Your situation sounds a bit more secluded than normal, but cubicle life is known for being a low, hellish hum. For years and years. Most people hate it and hate their lives, but they don't know what else to do or are too scared to and keep adding expenses and children to the roster, so they're stuck. So they just do their work and listen to some guys talk about football on youtube with their earbuds. And put on 1.7lbs a year eating Panda every day.

Only 1.7lbs a year? Aren't we talking about US of A here?

 
"GoldenCinderblock" Your situation sounds a bit more secluded than normal, but cubicle life is known for being a low, hellish hum. For years and years. Most people hate it and hate their lives, but they don't know what else to do or are too scared to and keep adding expenses and children to the roster, so they're stuck. So they just do their work and listen to some guys talk about football on youtube with their earbuds. And put on 1.7lbs a year eating Panda every day.

Yeah, its also a bit of a Myers Briggs phenomenon. Introverts would generally prefer this, while extroverts would not.

Sounds like management is largely introverted as they are designing the schedule and environment.

Also, this bro hasn't experienced the pain of BS meetings that drag on forever with people griping about the most mundane items that don't even relate to the meeting at all. Week after week after week.

So it is death by cube or death by meeting (Patrick Lencioni).

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

Or fucking Liz who you were nice to ONCE and now she comes over all the time to tell you about her nephews

heister: Look at all these wannabe richies hating on an expensive salad. https://arthuxtable.com/
 
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"GoldenCinderblock" Your situation sounds a bit more secluded than normal, but cubicle life is known for being a low, hellish hum. For years and years. Most people hate it and hate their lives, but they don't know what else to do or are too scared to and keep adding expenses and children to the roster, so they're stuck. So they just do their work and listen to some guys talk about football on youtube with their earbuds. And put on 1.7lbs a year eating Panda every day.

Yeah, its also a bit of a Myers Briggs phenomenon. Introverts would generally prefer this, while extroverts would not.

Sounds like management is largely introverted as they are designing the schedule and environment.

Also, this bro hasn't experienced the pain of BS meetings that drag on forever with people griping about the most mundane items that don't even relate to the meeting at all. Week after week after week.

So it is death by cube or death by meeting (Patrick Lencioni).

Definitely prefer getting my work done and dicking around on a phone over dicking around on my phone during those meetings and not getting my work done.

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"Sharkz34" Just graduated this past December and began my first job in finance about 5 weeks ago. I feel like a robot with my daily routine/office culture and I'm not sure how normal this is. At my office, everyone sits at their cubicle 10 hours a day, including eating lunch there. There are no meetings or anything to cause anyone to have to move. Furthermore, all communication is done via email. I seriously have gone full work days without speaking to another human. Everyone keeps headphones in making it impossible to have conversation. Is this normal or am I in a bad situation? I feel like I am going to get sick, or lonely I guess, of the routine here.

You are not a robot, you are in the matrix.

They are sucking the life out of you daily, hourly, as you breathe. Even as you sleep, you dream about this cube. Cube is life. Life is cube. Be the cube. Become the cube. Live the cube. Cube.

Your gravestone will only read one thing. The cube root of your age at death.

Cubed.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

Culture is King!

You can either work hard to seek out other people like you and bring them out of their holes, or leave. If you don't fit the culture at a company, you really have no future there. Since it's your first job though you should probably stick it out two years unless something awesome comes your way. Talk to upper mgmt, see how they feel about the situation- you might not be the only one championing for a change.

 

I have experienced the same thing in two previous jobs and I agree that it’s awful. However, in my current job, it’s not like that at all. We all shoot the breeze for about a half hour each morning and then throughout the day here and there. And it’s very open to the point that almost nothing seems off limits from mostly movies, recent news to politics and religion... This wouldn’t fly in most offices but I’m sure glad it does here.

All about fit

 

I want to preface my response by acknowledging: "different strokes for different folks". It's all about fit for me though, and based on your post, probably for you too.

There are a couple things that you need in order to be happy and prosper in the office:

  1. Work that challenges you and creates value for the client.
  2. Colleagues that make you laugh and make you proud

Without these things, even the best looking job will eventually fail to capture your enthusiasm. The minute that happens, your engagement in the job will decrease.

Business is a lot like sports in my experience - it's just no fun if you don't feel like you're part of the winning team.

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