Slept with the niece of my boss after his wedding

(new anonymous account). Met her at his wedding, we were both wasted, hormones did what hormones do. Took her to my hotel room and got going w/ some bad drunk sex. So bad in fact, she asked me to stop halfway through (how sad) and walk her to her hotel. Thanks for nothing?

-Her during the walk: "you're not going to tell [boss' first name] are you?" -Me: "Are you kidding, OF COURSE NOT" -Her: "Me neither..." (maybe it's just me but it definitely didn't sound very confident) -Small talk to fill the awkward silence ensued.

I'm a little nervous she might saying something.... especially if she's of the mindset of "All drunk sex is rape".

OR one of the people that saw us leave may say something, who knows. Before we went to my hotel, people saw us hanging out at the wedding reception and I believe a few people may have seen us leave together, but no idea who they were.

Should I be concerned? I have her phone #, should I say anything to her? Or just leave it be. This all happened pretty recently.

I would say thanks in advance for your feedback but who knows what the peanut gallery of WSO will say...

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The last thing a girl wants to admit to is that she couldn't arouse some dude.

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