Has this been done before? Is it appropriate? I assume no but wondering how and if I should even attempt to approach this. She's a SA and I'm FT, so I can’t really hit her up to learn more about her job (not the same bank). I sent her a connect request to which she accepted but nothing beyond that
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You risk ending up in her LinkedIn post as she shows the screenshots of men sliding into her LinkedIn DMs, showing what women have to deal with in a male-dominated industry, and how they have to keep pushing barriers
I had a girl DM me on there as she was looking to “meet other young professionals in the city.” Not thinking much of it, I replied and we set up a time to grab coffee. Went out for coffee and learned that she was the co-founder of this start-up. A week later we went out for dinner and did some bar hopping, then ended the night at my place.
Went on to hook up for a few months until she decided to get back with her ex. Fun while it lasted, but I wouldn’t go shooting shots on LinkedIn.
You could’ve literally just said the ending of the last sentence because none of that preamble was relevant
Fair, but you also asked if it’s happened before so tried to provide you with context in case you were to full send it.
Bro how are you living life on easy mode lmaooo a girl hyu on LINKEDIN
The fact she sent me a snap of her shirt for a white lies party which read, “I don’t use LinkedIn as a dating app” told me I wasn’t the first
tfw applying for jobs posted by attractive recruiters so they can hear my sultry voice and 'connect' with me
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Have done this twice and once had a girl slide into my DMs. Always ended favorably, no one getting roasted on LinkedIn (super immature post to make, IMO).
Play it safe and make it sound professional. The latest girl I did this - we met in person but I failed to close prior to end of the night. She looked me up on LI, I sent her a message and she thought I was trying to break into her industry by asking her for coffee. Realized ~30 minutes into the coffee chat (first date, actually) that I did not care about working in her industry.
Tbh, I would look her up on Facebook or Instagram to make sure she isn’t taken and then slide into her DMs on said apps. Keep LinkedIn interactions professional. This approach also makes your intentions clear.
I would not do this under any circumstance unless she added you first, and even then, it would be weird unless you could tell she was interested.
Coincidentally, this actually just happened to my wife this morning and it came off as really creepy, so I definitely do not recommend it.
There's really no good way to tell a girl you find her attractive based on her corporate headshot and work history without sounding like a stalker.
I would really advise against that! weird imo
if ur really down bad maybe to find her instagram or facebook
look her up on ig
Don’t
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