Top Hidden Mistakes to Avoid When Trying To Score a Girl?

I don't want to hear obvious things like "dress well" or "don't act like a dick". More interested in hearing about pitfalls which are often overlooked during the talking stage. 

Whenever I sense a promising connection forming, it often ends in disappointment. This pattern tends to occur more frequently with young women aged 19-23, a trend that can be attributed to the fact that their prefrontal cortex, responsible for decision-making, is not yet fully developed.

I've come to realize that men need to approach romantic pursuits with a degree of caution, as if every action, text message, and even the timing of these messages are being scrutinized. Send a message too early, and you may come across as overly eager or submissive; send it too late, and they might think you're not interested.

Doesn't help that most attractive girls have like 100 DM's from random dudes which gives them a false perception of choice, further deluding their mind.

Feel free to share your thoughts below. 

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- Lack of confidence

- Suffocating her (don't put the p*ssy on a pedestal)

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