What to do?

I’m currently dating a girl who honestly has been very kind and appreciative of me. I came from a crappy relationship to this one and it has been night and day. For some background this is only my second relationship and second person I’ve ever been with. She has been in numerous relationships and whatnot and has some issues from them. Nothing that really super interferes with our relationship but it honestly really bothers me. Like she was with straight losers and she let them treat her horribly and it just makes me feel weird. Idk what to do I’ve been wanting to end it just because I feel like maybe I should find someone more similar to me with similar career ambitions as well. What would you do?

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Everyone has a past. My wife is dramatically different from some of the girls I previously dated.

If it bothers you this much, break up with her. 

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My current wife has quite a past but it doesn't bother me much. She was an addict, then recovered, then became caught up with Ghislane Maxwell/Epstein issues. Good thing she's pretty! 

 

My first ex-wife had similar issues. Spent a few years in the pen for her questionable comments towards the elementary-school-aged children she taught in the early 2000s. Tried to keep the relationship going but the phone sex just wasn't the same over those low-quality phone microphones at the local penitentiary.  

 
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