Which job offer do you regret turning down the most, in retrospect?

Pls share! Any moment/moments where you got a lateral/any other job offer, and turned it down, and regret it now?

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Based on the most helpful WSO content, there are several shared experiences of regret when it comes to turning down job offers:

  1. Dream Job Offer Rescinded: One user shared how they turned down a good job offer after landing their "dream job," only to have the dream job offer rescinded because the company's board of directors never approved the position. They were left unemployed and struggled to find another job for months, ultimately having to relocate.

  2. Low-Paying Offer Regret: Another user regretted turning down a full-time corporate development role out of school because the pay was barely livable. They later found themselves unemployed and struggling to secure another opportunity, realizing that accepting the initial offer might have been a better stepping stone.

  3. Missed Buyside Opportunity: A user turned down a lateral offer to one of the top teams in the industry to pursue buyside opportunities. Unfortunately, they didn’t land the buyside role and had to return to lateral recruiting, feeling they missed a significant opportunity.

  4. Burnout and No Backup Plan: Some users regretted leaving jobs without a backup plan, especially when they were burnt out. While some managed to recover, others found themselves in difficult situations, wishing they had stayed employed while searching for better opportunities.

These stories highlight the importance of carefully weighing decisions, considering long-term career goals, and having contingency plans. If you’re facing a similar dilemma, it’s worth reflecting on these experiences to avoid similar regrets.

Sources: Company Email Addresses Guide, Changing Jobs - Hold ON!, Disappointed and heartbroken, Regrets in job search: Make sure this doesn't happen to you., Nine Months of Soul-Crushing Unemployment - Advice Needed

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None. I'm a firm believer that things happen for a reason. And if you got an offer once, you can get another one. With that being said, 2 years out of college, I got an offer for a cushy, 40 hour / week job. TC $200k. I wish I could be more descriptive, but it would give away the company (and me). Job didn't align with what I wanted to do, company had terrible culture, and the pay trajectory was also not great. Still, not a bad gig. 

 

Had a chance to work for the niche VC-arm of a large corporate with a global mandate in the Caymans 5 years ago. While I've enjoyed PE, I think that would've been an epic life experience.

Edit: how can an opinion on personal regret be inaccurate lmfao  

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Personally I don't care much for the city and I enjoy fishing. Island life would agree with me and the fund does some very interesting work from what I understand.

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None. 

But I've had some decisions to make:

  • Enterprise Asset Management consulting vs Financial Management consulting. Chose Financial Manager. 
  • Move to San Diego with company, stay in N. Virginia or move to NYC. Chose NYC.
  • Well paid 9-5pm M&A job verbal offer - accepted. But, then rescinded FML.
  • Stay in NYC or move to South to date girl I had lifetime crush on. Moved to South. 
  • Move to LA for job offer in corporate finance for defense company or stay in South to help my parents. Stayed in South. 
  • And the most recent: move to San Diego with friend, smoke a bunch of weed and continue the party or go to get a late FT MBA. Chose MBA.

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I really regret taking the PE offer i did. I wanted 5 things and it checked 4/5 (at least I thought at time of signing) and I gave up geography. I feel like I lost 3 years of my personal life and it had a bad impact on my mental health. Also, the experience was horrible, was treated poorly but looking back I learned to work with difficult people and balance life a bit better

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This isn't me but I have a friend from business school who turned down NVIDIA in 2014. He deeply regrets it. Another friend turned down DoorDash very early on (he would have been like employee #5). 

 

Big tech tried to recruit me twice (4 years apart), but after talking to people there I thought they were all slackers and that the culture would frustrate and bore me.

I wouldn't even say that I necessarily regret it, but I realize my life could've been easier, with similar or better outcomes. As I get older and less hardcore, I sometimes ask myself if I was dumb.

 

Not to say regret but I had an offer from a boutique VC firm very early on in my career that probably would've helped my CV a lot, but refused it because the owner of is notorious for being a dick, but as I navigate the corporate world, I feel like the me as of now wouldn't mind working in that environment as I kinda am used to it?

 
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