Do you pay all travelling expenses for your girls (guys)?
Disclaimer: very RE related topic here.
Bonus season is here, meaning we all bout to splurge on a bunch of useless shit. Just doing a survey to see if my fellow RE bros take care of the travelling bills when you're on long int'l trips with yo girls.
Should guys pay for all travelling expenses? Should we pay if you're not officially dating the chicks? Should you pay if the chick also has a high-finance job and can afford the trip herself? What's the rule of thumb here?
I pay for all dinners, concerts, etc but airfare and hotel is 50/50 unless I have a lot of credit card points to burn. I have never traveled with a girl I wasn't exclusive with.
I think it depends on how much you make vs your partner. If you are balling like LeBron while your gf is a teacher, it isn't really fair for you to split expenses 50/50. Maybe you pick up the travel and she can pick up the meals
I always go 50/50 with my GF on everything. Have been dating her since Feb/March.
The only exception is if I'm going somewhere anyways for a work trip then I cover hotel since I had to go anyways and 1 person room is the same cost as a 2 person usually.
I pay for everything besides her gigolos
As a man with morals that could stand the test of time, dating two women (one is long-distance) and managing a portfolio of FWBs, I only pay for food and drinks. I give Bday presents to all. One time both girlfriends got the same LV purse.
We usually split it. We both have good jobs and split expenses anyhow though, so that's not abnormal.
I would be annoyed if she had a good job and expected me to pay for everything. At least the flight or half the hotel or something. 1 of the 3
as stated above, unless she is like a social worker or student, then I'd just pay and let her pay when she offers.. for like a lunch or something
We take turns in splitting the bills.....but airfare and hotels are 50/50.
We alternate paying for things, probably ends up being 60-65% me, which is fine. I make more, and it's not the money that's important, it's that everyone party to the relationship is contributing to it.
The one exception is weddings. If it's someone from her social circle getting married, she's paying for my flight/hotel/most expenses. I'll do the same for my folks.
50/50 on everything. Try to ask her to cook all meals, do laundry, iron your clothes, change all diapers, etc and see how that goes. Chick better spend some of her own money. Plus, I want to make the choice to spend more of my own without her controlling me.
If you're not officially dating but she's going on trips with you and clearly fucking you, she's a sugar babe - so in those cases you can expect to foot the bill
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I've got a wife without a prenup so does it matter?
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