How do schools check whether you're actually LGBT?

As I understand, acknowledging that you're LGBT significantly benefits applications. The question is how do school know whether you're actually LGBT? Because otherwise, there is a strong incentive to check the box.

28 Comments
 

Wow I never new that being lgbt gives people benefits when applying to schools. I do not know how they would figure out if you are lying about being lesbian, gay, or bisexual but considering the majority of trans people take hrt and there is a whole processing of getting the medication i'm sure you could provide evidence that you are taking the medication or have completed psychotherapy stating that you want to transition.

 
Controversial

No one is going to know unless you have an interview and they ask you how your experiences as an LGBT person have affected you.

By your logic, why not just make up a sob story for your essay(s) about how one of your close relatives died in a tragic accident and you overcame it? Or how you overcame childhood cancer? Or how you helped those in need even if you didn't?

The answer is because its fundamentally dishonest and insulting to those people who have actually struggled through these things. Colleges want to bring together individuals with a wide range of experiences, including members of the LGBT community. LGBT individuals generally have very unique experiences that they draw from.

 

I disagree that LGBT applicants in the U.S. and Europe nowadays have ever struggled because of their sexual orientation. Tolerance for LGBT is established in the U.S. and Europe a long time ago, and LGBT people who are now in their 20s (which is the approximate age of the applicants) have never experienced anything worse than other people experience. For example, I bet that a lot of fat people, punks, metalheads, and so on are bullied more than LGBT. But I've never seen adcoms asking me whether I'm fat or a fan of GG Allin.

That is why I don't think that checking the LGBT box is as bad as making up stories about death and cancer.

 

I don't think checking that box helps you at all in admissions. LGBT doesn't fall within the minority or URM umbrella for rankings (at least I don't think so), and I've never seen a school publish the percent of LGBT students. The only real incentive for encouraging LGBT applicants is so that they have enough to claim they're an open and inviting community. Any of the top schools get way more than enough to satisfy that goal, so I would be surprised if it makes you stand out in the least.

I think the most likely reason they ask is so they 1) have some record that there is no systematic discrimination and 2) it gives them one more angle to pitch you on if you're a strong candidate. Same reason they ask if you're married or have children. (Cue the series of "How will business school check whether the random kid I bring with me to my interview is actually mine?" threads).

 

OP, reality is the community you'd be trying to pretend to be a part of is pretty small and they'd sniff out someone using this status as an easy layup pretty quickly. Unless you were very involved in the community, I doubt this plan would fly.

Pros, maybe it gives you a tiny edge. Cons, it nukes your app and you get black balled at every school with a LGBT group.

 
Best Response

Earum omnis et et omnis. Omnis distinctio vitae molestiae amet reiciendis soluta voluptates. Cum sapiente earum quae ut vel est nostrum. Sit sequi adipisci provident et.

 

Doloremque sunt enim rerum reprehenderit autem expedita. Voluptatum nobis quis aliquid ea autem. Amet eveniet ea deserunt repellat error est. Vitae molestiae qui sed magnam nisi unde. Culpa repellendus ut aliquid dolores.

Accusamus quia perferendis velit nostrum. Occaecati impedit asperiores et inventore minima. Harum nesciunt iste libero.

Career Advancement Opportunities

July 2026 Investment Banking

  • Evercore 01 99.4%
  • Moelis & Company 01 98.9%
  • JPMorgan 01 98.3%
  • Guggenheim Partners 01 97.7%
  • Morgan Stanley 07 97.2%

Overall Employee Satisfaction

July 2026 Investment Banking

  • Moelis & Company No 99.4%
  • Evercore No 98.9%
  • Morgan Stanley 01 98.3%
  • Banco Santander 02 97.7%
  • BMO Capital Markets 12 97.1%

Professional Growth Opportunities

July 2026 Investment Banking

  • Evercore 01 99.4%
  • Moelis & Company 01 98.9%
  • Morgan Stanley 06 98.3%
  • Goldman Sachs 01 97.7%
  • JPMorgan 01 97.2%

Total Avg Compensation

July 2026 Investment Banking

  • Vice President (16) $429
  • Associates (46) $258
  • 3rd+ Year Analyst (8) $210
  • 2nd Year Analyst (22) $179
  • Intern/Summer Associate (14) $159
  • 1st Year Analyst (80) $150
  • Intern/Summer Analyst (73) $101
notes
16 IB Interviews Notes

“... there’s no excuse to not take advantage of the resources out there available to you. Best value for your $ are the...”

Leaderboard

1
redever's picture
redever
99.2
2
Secyh62's picture
Secyh62
99.0
3
kanon's picture
kanon
99.0
4
BankonBanking's picture
BankonBanking
99.0
5
DrApeman's picture
DrApeman
98.9
6
dosk17's picture
dosk17
98.9
7
CompBanker's picture
CompBanker
98.9
8
GameTheory's picture
GameTheory
98.9
9
Betsy Massar's picture
Betsy Massar
98.9
10
numi's picture
numi
98.8
success
From 10 rejections to 1 dream investment banking internship

“... I believe it was the single biggest reason why I ended up with an offer...”