Saying 'Hi' vs 'Hello' vs 'Dear' in emails?

Saying 'Hi' vs 'Hello' vs 'Dear' in emails? Which is better? I feel like I have better results with 'Hi'. Personally, if it's someone I know I don't care what their response is and I have to be professional, then I go with 'Dear'. I am considering emailing current IBers for coffee side chats, for VCs I use 'Hi'. However, I am worried 'Hi' might seem to unprofessional, while 'Hello' seams kind of weird, and 'Dear' seems potentially impersonal.

Anyway, thoughts? 
 

- Prospective IB intern

Saying 'Hi' vs 'Hello' vs 'Dear' in emails?

Hi example: Hi Mr. Smith
73% (72 votes)
Hello example: Hello Mr. Smith
11% (11 votes)
Dear example: Dear Mr. Smith
15% (15 votes)
Total votes: 98
6 Comments
 

Don’t use “Dear”. You’re not talking to your grandma. Hello > Hi > Hey in order of descending formality - just do whatever based on the closeness of the connection.

And make sure you spell the recipient’s name correctly. That’s much more important then the greeting word.

 
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I remember blasting 100+ emails out when I was networking back when I had no clue what I was doing. Looking back now that I have a few years of experience, I’d say the following:

Don’t use good morning. It’s not a good morning when I wake up to an email from a random kid at 9am asking to jump on a call. I don’t care about you.

Don’t use dear. I’m not your grandma, you don’t care about me, and I don’t care about you.

I would use “Hey first name”. That’s how I send most emails. If I’m responding to an email, I rarely use an intro. My signature has my name in it.

 

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