Having A Mini Crisis

Hi WSO community!

Have been a long-time user and have enjoyed reading all the funny and informative posts while I was recruiting. Was fortunate enough to land an IB internship but after spending time actually doing the job, I don't think it's for me for these reasons:

  • I know what I signed up for and I'm not surprised that the job is taking over my life. If I feel like this now as an intern, it'll probably be even worse full-time. I have other priorities in life such as family, friends, significant other, sports, gaming and I don't feel like IB is worth it enough to give up all of those but 1-2. Is there a way to push back and have some control over my life or will the first 1-2 years truly be up to the staffer?
  • The work is interesting and I am learning a ton but it also feels like busy/grunt work at times. I'm not saying that I'm above this kind of work because I'm not but most of my internship days are spent formatting slides, updating databases with public data, taking notes on calls, reading news on downtime. Is this what every junior employee will do, regardless if IB or not?
  • There are other reasons but these are top of mind and I can provide more with replies

Am I bugging? Should I suffer for 2 years and set myself up good? Will I be ok if I do something in finance that is non-IB? I feel like it would be such a waste after working so hard to recruit (sunk cost I know...) and I also don't really know what else is out there since I tunnel visioned toward IB during recruitment. Can someone please give it to me straight, I'm in need of help. I think about this every day and it's really eating me away.

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Based on the most helpful WSO content, here are some insights and advice for your situation:

Addressing Your Concerns:

  1. Work-Life Balance:

    • Initial Years: The first 1-2 years in IB are typically very demanding and largely controlled by the staffer. It's common to feel overwhelmed as an intern, and this intensity often continues into full-time roles.
    • Control Over Life: While it's challenging, some analysts manage to carve out personal time by being efficient and setting boundaries. However, this is not the norm and requires a supportive team and understanding superiors.
  2. Nature of Work:

    • Junior Roles: The tasks you described (formatting slides, updating databases, taking notes) are indeed common for junior employees in IB. This grunt work is part of the learning curve and helps build foundational skills.
    • Learning Experience: Despite the repetitive tasks, the experience gained in IB is highly valuable and can significantly boost your career prospects in finance and beyond.

Long-Term Perspective:

  • Career Benefits: Completing a stint in IB, even if it's tough, can be a major credibility booster. It signals to future employers that you have a strong work ethic and a solid understanding of finance and business.
  • Financial Setup: Many former analysts mention that living frugally during their IB years allowed them to save significantly, providing financial freedom for future endeavors.

Mental and Physical Health:

  • Self-Care: It's crucial to prioritize your health and well-being. Regular exercise, healthy eating, and taking vacations are important. Neglecting these can lead to burnout and long-term health issues.
  • Support System: Having a supportive network of friends, family, and a significant other can make a big difference. They can provide emotional support and help you maintain a sense of balance.

Alternative Paths:

  • Non-IB Finance Roles: There are many other roles in finance that might offer a better work-life balance while still being rewarding. Exploring these options could be beneficial if IB doesn't align with your long-term goals.
  • Learning Experience: Even if you decide to leave IB, the skills and knowledge you've gained will be valuable in other finance roles or even in different industries.

Final Thoughts:

  • Reflection: Take some time to reflect on why you chose IB initially and what you hope to achieve. This can help clarify whether enduring the tough initial years is worth it for your long-term goals.
  • Seeking Advice: Consider talking to mentors or colleagues who have been through similar experiences. They can provide personalized advice and support.

Remember, it's okay to reassess your career path and make changes if something isn't working for you. Your well-being and happiness are paramount.

Sources: Is two years of IB the best way to start off?, It’s 2 years, you got this, Please Help Me. IBD Analyst Burnt Out 3 Months In., Medical School --> IBanking, Life after Investment Banking

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So my thought process would be as follows.

Do IB for at least a couple years (so long as your mental health is relatively OK - if not, leave after a year to consulting or something more relaxed). It will be a grind, but you'll set yourself up for well-paying (relative to average) lifestyle jobs should you still feel this way after the fact. Life is expensive - putting a low 6-figure floor on your earnings makes things materially easier.

One piece of advice: set clear expectations with family, SO, friends about what the next 2 years of IB will look like.

 

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