Having A Mini Crisis
Hi WSO community!
Have been a long-time user and have enjoyed reading all the funny and informative posts while I was recruiting. Was fortunate enough to land an IB internship but after spending time actually doing the job, I don't think it's for me for these reasons:
- I know what I signed up for and I'm not surprised that the job is taking over my life. If I feel like this now as an intern, it'll probably be even worse full-time. I have other priorities in life such as family, friends, significant other, sports, gaming and I don't feel like IB is worth it enough to give up all of those but 1-2. Is there a way to push back and have some control over my life or will the first 1-2 years truly be up to the staffer?
- The work is interesting and I am learning a ton but it also feels like busy/grunt work at times. I'm not saying that I'm above this kind of work because I'm not but most of my internship days are spent formatting slides, updating databases with public data, taking notes on calls, reading news on downtime. Is this what every junior employee will do, regardless if IB or not?
- There are other reasons but these are top of mind and I can provide more with replies
Am I bugging? Should I suffer for 2 years and set myself up good? Will I be ok if I do something in finance that is non-IB? I feel like it would be such a waste after working so hard to recruit (sunk cost I know...) and I also don't really know what else is out there since I tunnel visioned toward IB during recruitment. Can someone please give it to me straight, I'm in need of help. I think about this every day and it's really eating me away.
Based on the most helpful WSO content, here are some insights and advice for your situation:
Addressing Your Concerns:
Work-Life Balance:
Nature of Work:
Long-Term Perspective:
Mental and Physical Health:
Alternative Paths:
Final Thoughts:
Remember, it's okay to reassess your career path and make changes if something isn't working for you. Your well-being and happiness are paramount.
Sources: Is two years of IB the best way to start off?, It’s 2 years, you got this, Please Help Me. IBD Analyst Burnt Out 3 Months In., Medical School --> IBanking, Life after Investment Banking
So my thought process would be as follows.
Do IB for at least a couple years (so long as your mental health is relatively OK - if not, leave after a year to consulting or something more relaxed). It will be a grind, but you'll set yourself up for well-paying (relative to average) lifestyle jobs should you still feel this way after the fact. Life is expensive - putting a low 6-figure floor on your earnings makes things materially easier.
One piece of advice: set clear expectations with family, SO, friends about what the next 2 years of IB will look like.
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