Should you be more aggressive in networking with family connections?

By aggressive I don't mean calling/emailing the connection every day. Rather, I mean if they don't respond, to follow up after a week through a phone. If they still don't respond, follow up with another email.

If they tell you they'll refer you to a contact or if they give you advice trust them that they'll get back to you.

I'd like to think that the connections have a bit more patience with you if they know you through family. However, you can't take their time for granted and flood their voicemail and email with requests to meet all the time. Only set something up when you have to come with great questions and let them do the talking. That'll prevent from alienating the family connection you have.

Do you think that you can be a little more aggressive (without being a pest) in networking with family connections?

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I think you can be more aggressive because of the closer relationship, also I think because you should hold them to a higher standard. If someone in your family has the ability to help you out and doesn't, than in my opinion that person should be dead to you. Don't be over the top, but be more aggressive than you normally would with a non family connection.

 
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BobbIt really depends. If they have friends in front office roles they can put you in touch with those people
Yeah, IT often gets to wander around the building and make friends all over the place (at my firm at least) so they can introduce you. But they don't really have any 'clout'.
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