Best place to meet older women?

As I mentioned in another thread, one of my goals in 2019 is to bang a MILF. Doesn’t have to be a literal mom, just a hot woman 38+

Anyway - wondering if you guys had any tips or tricks on where to meet older women, specifically older women who are into younger men.

Somewhat relevant: I’m going to be interning at a top EB this summer, so maybe there’s a place in nyc where 40 yr old women hang out in order to meet future MDs? Appreciate any help here

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You’re not an MD, nor are you anywhere as rich as a 38 year old hot woman could find. If you think you’re hot shit and able to pull because you work at a bank many people outside of finance have never heard of, think again...

Sorry buddy, stick to Phoebe’s and B Bar

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Jeez where do I begin? I said FUTURE md. It’s Phebe’s - not Phoebes. Sophisticated NYC milfs know Evercore and Moelis

Are you just stressed cause you’re not getting traction in PE recruiting?

Fuckin my way thru nyc one chick at a time
 

Great suggestion as usual. I'd say in order to be considered a MILF she'll have to be an 8 or up.

What are the chances OP can pull an 8 or higher, even if he uses Hinge......

thots & prayers
 

Some technical clarifications here MILF= Any hot girl that has a kid Cougar= Older (38+) lady into younger men.

Personally, I'm more into "Aspiring MILFs" than actual MILFs, and definitely not into cougars.

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How was this not the first mentioned? Definitely a go to

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realistically, there are a few types of places

equinox cardio classes that girls take, whole foods produce section, the bar area at some of the steakhouses (wollenskies grill, the palm, etc..) some of the nicer hotel lobby bars...basically, these are all "nice" places, and also tend to be more expensive than your college dive bars. Older people tend to enjoy/prefer nicer things, and in NYC...nice=expensive. You don't need to spend money, just be in the environment.

You'll have to have actual game to be able to just walk up to a girl / group of girls and impress them with your energy/attitude/personality...and given your OP, i doubt you have it...but life is a journey, so maybe you'll get there someday. I suggest you read the book this https://amzn.to/2Vyjfmm</a">Seduction and manipulation book...it goes into good detail on all the various types of attractive personalities...enabling you to pick the persona that best fits yourself.

just google it...you're welcome
 

Gym. or if you're at a resort and notice she's traveling alone or with just female friends. chances are they're ready to mingle.

 

Intern as a pool boy instead. If an older woman is going to go for a young college guy she's not looking for "future MD" lol, she wants a dumb guy with a six pack that can fuck longer than any of the rich guys she can easily hook up with/wants a long term relationship with.

Use dating apps or check places where TV soap operas tell older women all the hot young guys hang out. You're less likely to see an older woman there, but most likely she's there on the hunt.

It really shouldn't be that hard to find these kind of women at all.

 

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