Do you pick your partner based on looks or what they do?

Was having a really deep thought after re-reading the Victoria Secret show shutting down thing. And was really like Did people got so jealous of others, that they decided to cancel the Victoria Secret show because they didn't want others to be considered healthily in shape?

What have our world became to be full of hypocrites. Anyway I pick my partner using Darwinism. Do you pick based on reproduction criteria or if they are smart funny etc. criteria?

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yeah yeah of course bro but to be honest she gotta be good looking for me too

 

My side chick looks good, has a good job, and most importantly loves being finger blasted all the time - these are the important things to consider.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 
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Does she give you blowjobs too (and if so, good ones)? That's very important IMHO 

Unlimited blowjobs - I am very lucky.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

I understand older guys coming on here to talk about finance or personal advice but its kinda sad dick measuring with twenty year olds.  Isiah usually has good things to say though

 

People are so graphically sexual on here and I say finger blasted and everyone loses their shit and MSes me. Really.

This girl brought 24 claws and a handle of vodka tonight - winner winner chicken dinner.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

More MS without comments - bring it on I guess.....

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

I think men should boycott all Polo by Ralph Lauren Fragrences because I don't like the way Nacho's body makes me feel. #mentoo #bodyshaming

 

bro i know right. coming from not america makes me confused asf when i came here. like wtf okay the girls in VS looks good and if it makes you feel bad just don't watch it? the models practice exercise a lot to get those body. now all of the future VS angels or current one who is still in their prime modelling years lost one of the world's most expensive cat walk contract because some people get offended. like wtf america?

 

I don't really focus on "reproduction criteria" but I like someone who I find pretty but more importantly someone I really get along with and can be friends with. Funny, smart, laughs at my jokes, puts up with my nonsense, is a tiny bit crazy, and is supportive of my is what comes to mind. Like that shit is just as attractive to me as appearance.

Dayman?
 

but then be honest, you would always look for the cute/hot ones right. it's ingrained in your human primal senses bro. and yes getting along with our other counterpart is attractive as hell :)

 
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I pick my partner first and foremost based on their character. Traits like integrity, kindness, doing the right thing even when no one is there to witness means they won't screw your life up halfway during your marriage, meaning there'll be a much lower risk of them causing you pain and heartache in the long run.

I believe that by a certain age, character is moulded and set. Unless something drastic happens in their life that causes them shift their entire worldview and approach towards life, assholes remain assholes and kind people generally remind kind. So it's important to first and foremost to pick a person with good moral character as it will be difficult to change them after you get serious with them, even if you want to.

At the end of the day you are going to marry someone who will be there for you when times get tough, and times will definitely get tough and you two will be put to the test. Wouldn't you want to marry a good person in this case, as opposed to prioritising factors such as appearance, which would eventually fade with time, or wealth, that is not guaranteed to last?

 

facts bro. good looking but you gotta verify their inner as well before moving on to long term

 

Don't mean to humble brag but my girl has colossal tits, like genetic freak level.  Managed to snatch her when we were both young and she lost a lot of weight, instantly realized I would never see a more attractive woman in my life and I had already won the game so to speak.  We also get along great too.  Sometime I wonder did I really hit a home run or did I just force myself to get along with her and make our personalities mesh for... reasons...  I may not have put so my heart and soul into an average looking girl from age 17 to this day.

She studied to be a teacher but decided that life wasn't for her, now she's going to be a personal trainer.  Not gonna be making me a lot of money but at least she will stay good looking for a long time and keep me looking good too.  

 

The person asked how looks, personality, and occupation weigh when choosing a partner, and I simply gave my situation where I've been blessed in one of those categories.

 

drumpfy do you have self satisfaction and ego issues?

hahah jk ily wow ur gf has colossal ones. can i get a test xD very jealous

 

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