How Can Managing Directors Afford Families (NYC)?

Looking at recent threads, it seems like it is almost impossible to plan a family in NYC working as IB MD.

If you are a 50+ year MD at GS/MS making $5-10M, with insane  volatility of earnings, how do you get comfortable with committing to kids/mortgage/family given the high cost of living?  This seems like a lot, but when you have a family / kids in NY, it's actually not that much.

Do people just defer families or find partner with a steady job (doctor), while they swing for the fences?

Asking because it seems impossible to to build a family on that peasant salary of seven figures a year in HCOL city like NYC.

How do fellow MDs do it? 

(this is an obvious troll post for all of you retards who wonder if two mil a year is enough to survive in NYC. spoiler alert: yes it is and you should get your priorities checked if that's actually an issue for you) 

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