How Can Managing Directors Afford Families (NYC)?

Looking at recent threads, it seems like it is almost impossible to plan a family in NYC working as IB MD.

If you are a 50+ year MD at GS/MS making $5-10M, with insane  volatility of earnings, how do you get comfortable with committing to kids/mortgage/family given the high cost of living?  This seems like a lot, but when you have a family / kids in NY, it's actually not that much.

Do people just defer families or find partner with a steady job (doctor), while they swing for the fences?

Asking because it seems impossible to to build a family on that peasant salary of seven figures a year in HCOL city like NYC.

How do fellow MDs do it? 

(this is an obvious troll post for all of you retards who wonder if two mil a year is enough to survive in NYC. spoiler alert: yes it is and you should get your priorities checked if that's actually an issue for you) 

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No MD is making 5 - 10 million. More like 800k - 2 mill

Edit: it’s impressive how people are so out of touch regarding how much MDs make. This ain’t pre-2008 guys, back then that type of money was attainable, now not so much.

 

You’re a clown. I’m not even in banking and just through networking personally know 3 MD’s who make around $4-$6M a year. 2 at BB banks, one at an EB

 
medellin

(this is an obvious troll post for all of you retards who wonder if two mil a year is enough to survive in NYC. spoiler alert: yes it is and you should get your priorities checked if that's actually an issue for you) 

Then why did you bother posting it in the first place?

 
Arroz con Pollo

I bet you think Biden is innocent

Of what?  Seeing as I'm not a cretin and have some bare semblance of critical thinking ability, which is in extremely short supply on this forum, I'll have to ask you to be more specific.  

 
Arroz con Pollo

I bet you think Biden is innocent

So did you have a particular crime in mind, or are you just going to scurry off with your tail between your legs because someone called you out on parroting whatever OANN talking point you heard yesterday?

 

He has no sense of humor.

"If you don't have any enemies in life you have never stood up for anything" - Winston Churchill | "It's a testament to the sheer belligerence of the profession that people would rather argue about the 'risk-adjusted returns' of using inferior tooth cleaning methods." - kellycriterion
 

He has some good insight and comments every now and then but he’s so out of touch with the average person

 

You had me going ngl, quality shitpost sir

MDs be out here working for tips!!!!

"If you don't have any enemies in life you have never stood up for anything" - Winston Churchill | "It's a testament to the sheer belligerence of the profession that people would rather argue about the 'risk-adjusted returns' of using inferior tooth cleaning methods." - kellycriterion
 

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