How often are you SUPPOSED to see your girlfriend to remain not obsessive?

My gf and I live together and share the rent. I see her for 2 hours in the morning, another 30 minutes sometimes at noon when we meet up for a quick lunch, and from 8pm through around 2am, for a total of 10 hours a day, 7 days a week.

i told my friends and they all kinda went "WHA THE FUCK?! That ain't healthy man! you two are way too obsessive!" apparently most of them only see their SO's 2-4 times.... a WEEK. They;ve been doing this for years! jesus...i thought guys had needs? :P

are we being obsessive? we're 24.

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your friends are essentially telling you that you shouldn't live with your girlfriend. 24 seems pretty young to be living with a significant other, but most people posting on this board probably have maturity past their age. Also depends on her looks

 
therightcoast_ but most people posting on this board probably have maturity past their age.

Many of the posts would actually suggest the exact opposite I think.

 

What the fuck do they expect, you live with her.

Get new friends.

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I'm with HPM, get new friends.

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Congratulations, you have what appears to be a normal romantic relationship, not an arrangement of exchanging sex for favors (not that there's anything wrong with it).

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AviatorBoth of you sound like clingy, needy types. Dont either of you have a personality ? Any interests of your own ?

well all the interests of our own, we also happen to share. we just went skydiving last saturday

 
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AviatorBoth of you sound like clingy, needy types. Dont either of you have a personality ? Any interests of your own ?

what logic could you have possibly used to come to this conclusion? How do you figure that the don't have a personality? You make no sense, there is no way for you to know that based off this posting.

Because I know the type too well. She's probably a plain Jane, and he thinks he can't do any better. They'll get married in a few years, pop out a couple of kids and move to a 2-bedroom on the UES.

Its all so cliche and so boring. Absolutely nothing wrong with it, mind you, I know lots of those kinds of couples, but live a little for chrissakes. OP, let me guess, you guys go to the gym together too, don't you ?

 

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