Kids of billionaires or close to it, how was it growing up?

Children born into very wealthy households, what is it really like? What opportunities and advantages and crazy experiences have you had because of money or your position? Alternatively, what do you resent about your position? Is there truth in the "poor little rich kid" dilemma? What do you wish other people knew about you? And can you not really relate to others who were not born in the same circumstances as you?

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yeah couldn’t tell you but he seems to like it. he’ll take the train times when we could expense an uber and his family has at least one jet but he’ll open his email in front of me and you can see American Airlines trip confirmations in there. he worked in banking and has been in private equity for years now when he technically doesn’t have to work at all (the whole family, mother, father, and sister, all work too) so i imagine it’s one of those not trying to live lavish before you “earn it” things. i’m sure too his life is much more lavish behind the scenes than it appears — he rents and takes the train and doesn’t buy expensive stuff and flies commercial but if he wanted to he could buy a $2M house, use his family's jet more, buy a $200K car, buy super nice clothes etc

edit: i’ll add too he has a child and has talked a few times about basically wanting to raise his child right. his wife works a fancy job (won’t say too much but imagine corporate lawyer, doctor, etc type job) and he’s mentioned wanting his child to learn to work hard and doing what will make them happy so probably doesn’t want them growing up as the child of a billionaire.

 
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Sounds like his parents did an outstanding job. 

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never EVER drop that number. we won't.

The only difference between Asset Management and Investment Research is assets. I generally see somebody I know on TV on Bloomberg/CNBC etc. once or twice a week. This sounds cool, until I remind myself that I see somebody I know on ESPN five days a week.
 

Something I've noticed is that most billionaire kids I know and are friends with ( ~8) only 1 spends money extravagantly and "flaunts their wealth". The rest are extremely humble and you wouldn't be able to tell the difference between them and the person next to them.

However, many of my friends who come from rich parents (100M-500M) are the complete opposite, with many who flaunt their wealth and spend excessive amounts of money. Not sure why this is but its interesting. 

 

Damn that’s tough to hear they’ve all struggled that badly. Is there some sort of common theme among their depression? Or are they depressed for unique situations?

 

marry one of then and take their money when they off themselves...

p.s. if you're a woman lesbian marriage works too, just say you're bi

 

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Yeah that's complete bs. Whenever the rich say "I'm leaving my fortune to charity" what they means is they will setup their own foundation, owned by their heirs and make a number of tax deductible donations to said charity. The charity will continue to invest the funds how it sees fit (shares, alternatives, PE etc) whilst using its leverage to influence politics and other activities. All under the guise of "charity". 

That's like Shaq recently saying he's not going to give his kids any money and then his 15 or whatever kid next to him is standing with a 50k rolex lmao. 

 

I've worked with the kid of a multi-billionaire, happy to say she's completely down-to-earth, lovely girl. She's also super-smart like her Dad, flawless academics then worked in IB and consulting so she definitely doesn't need Daddy's Money to be successful.

As others have pointed out, I notice the kids of super-wealthy individuals somehow tend to be more grounded, it's the kids of simply higher-than-average income parents who tend to fit the spoiled-brat stereotype.

 

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