Not even joking, girls just want my body, they don't care about my personality. Or maybe I just have a shit personality. Is getting fat worth it? Or is it just that dating apps are for hookups, have you met a long term gf on a dating app? Thanks
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Your dating app pics and prompts probably give off the wrong vibe. Are they from college / nights out / showing off your body? Get some "wholesome" pics (not obnoxious, just photos from traveling or where you and your friends don't look wasted) and approach the prompts with a relationship in mind
That said even if you're hot you're going to have a harder time finding a quality long-term girlfriend than a hookup online
Paradoxically I don't get enough matches if I don't put a shirtless pic as first pic lol, my face doesn't carry me that hard. Girls just filter that shit out too fast. As for approaching them with a relationship in mind, doesn't seem to work. Girls lose interest FAST and I just come across like a bitch. Maybe online dating is indeed fruitless for looking for a ltr
Shirtless pic 10000% says hookup - girls looking for a serious guy are literally swiping right past you. Same with pics of you and your fratty-looking college bros, your profile is probably just set up to attract a very different type of girl right now. You need to find (or take) a better picture. Also fill out your profile fully
Go somewhere pretty with some of your female friends in a nice outfit (white button down should do it) and have them take a real photo of you. Also, ask your female friends who are a little more serious/not in the hookup phase to take a look at your profile. Sometimes even the way you phrase the prompts can do you in.
Online dating isn't great but it is still a numbers game looking for relationships
It's probably better to just put on a shirt than get fat.
You know that you can just cover up your body without getting fat, right? Maybe a baggy t shirt or loose button up (like a hawaiian)? If you want to filter women by personality, try asking more in-depth questions rather than surface level small talk. Try showing more personality in your nights out/apps, and it'll definitely help you out a bit more
Never get fat, bro. As someone who loves food, there is nothing that tastes as good as being jacked feels.
Sounds like you need some Muscular Christianity in your life
lmao thats actually a thing
yeah I know, pretty wild
Bro cut the crap. You know and I know most people on this website are virgins and cannot relate to your struggles at all. You just want to humble brag in front of them.
Isaiah are you posting under your burner account?
Is it that obvious? Damn.
This is exactly the type of thread I would expect you to start
i have a huge cawk and am getting too much attention from women - should i have surgery to shave off the top so i can finally settle down?
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