Red Pill
I saw on the last months a lot of content in YouTube about red pill: Red Pill channels growing, manly content ("reject degeneracy, embrace X") and more people getting into readings about that (The Way of The Superior Man, The Rational Male, etc.).
What are your thoughts and experience regarding the red pill philosphy with women and life?
Agree/Disagree?
The core of the red pill is that women are inherently evil and oppressing men. If you were to make a Venn Diagram between people who believe that nonsense and people who have healthy relationships with women, you would have two circles.
Thankfully that was mostly a thing in 2015-2016, and now the red pill is almost meaningless because it's spread beyond that community and "-pilled" is a generic suffix. For example someone who got into weightlifting is "iron-pilled".
Cringe
Agree. It's literally not even a debate.
Red pill community is broad and has many points of view. Some of it misogynistic, some of it quite constructive. It’s nearly the only set of conversations I see happening on sex, relationships and even marriage strategy in an honest and unvarnished truth kind of way. I wish I had discovered it earlier. This is especially true because I grew up without a dad (died when I was 8) and had no male role mod or anyone to take me under their wing and give unvarnished advice. Take what is useful from this set of online conversations , discard what isn’t useful. Listen to where others failed and learn from their mistakes. I think for many young people, especially young men getting started on their dating and relationships, red pill is a useful honest set of conversations.
I went through a PUA phase briefly between the ages of like 15-16 after reading all of Tucker Max lol. I found out about MarriedRedPill from one of the homies on /r/steroids daily OT chat I fux with. I went down a rabbithole. I even read one of their stupid fucking e-books.
It's for autistic dudes who end up in marriages where the wife settled and doesn't wanna fuck them anymore. Basically tells them to lift, do self-improvement, and not put the pussy on a pedestal and keep doing that until either she wants to fuck or you're competent enough of a man to leave her and find someone who will want to fuck. Which is actually good advice at its core. But they got to where they are because they're mostly self-entitled autistis, so they manage to be really cringey and like... scientific... about it. They post their terrible lifts and shit they did to act like a man that week and berate each other if they said something too nice to their wives or whatever. They're basically acting like autistic 16-year-old boys first learning about pickup artist shit. Except they're like 45-year-old accountants who still take the Mystery Method seriously. They read all these special books you can only get through pdf so their wives don't find out. Shit's weird. Check it out.
I agree with Goldie. Red pill is so much more than PUA. married red pill is what I partake in and it has made a material difference in my marriage. Running game never stops. You have to keep attraction going even into marriage and it's much, much harder. Trying to get a girl to be into you for a ONS or for a date night per week is easy. Try keeping the mojo going after a decade into marriage.
Agree with this almost 100%. Some of the ideas behind it are solid but the execution is.. lacking to say the least. The main red pill subreddit was like 2% useful info and 98% misogyny (and I am not one of those people who calls everything misogyny).
The marriedredpill version is much much better and from what I’ve seen of it probably helps people. But what you have to remember is that it is populated with men who somehow needed Reddit to tell them that spending their life begging some woman who doesn’t want to fuck them for sex once every three months is suboptimal.
The Red Pill community is not an honest one at all. In fact, it's much closer to the blue pill in the matrix movies than the red pill.
"It's not me who's an unfuckable loser, it's women who are evil and society as a whole is oppressing us through feminism!"
That's not a hard pill to take at all, in fact it's a pill of pure copium. Sorry you had to have these losers as a proxy father figure.
Like the other guy said, it's so broad. There's a part of the red pill community that's horrible as you outlined here (mostly the blackpill pipeline). But then again there's a huge part within red pill where the emphasis is placed on turning the unfuckable losers into decent human beings worthy of relationships. I've seen too much workout and diet and career advice on r/theredpill that's actually quite good. As a matter of fact this part makes red pill paragons almost indistinguishable from the self-proclaimed radical feminists (like red pill's archenemies, r/femaledatingstrategy). They use the same vetting processes and lingo. Both would call you "low value" if you're a gamer or watch some fucking anime, both would ridicule you for befriending a girl, both would shit on you if you're kind to people etc. While red pillers are opposed to feminism, I'd say they emphasise men's rights moreso than hating on feminists.
Personally I used to look at this stuff for entertainment. There's a hard truth in the premise of the red pill, but ultimately it's toxic as fuck.
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