Girls are the same as you, just different reproductive organs. Don't treat approaching women any different from approaching men, we're all humans after all. Rejection is a given in life, you will face it at every stage of your existence, do not fear it because it is impossible to avoid it. My advice would be to pick up hobbies, join service orgs, etc. in order to get in touch with people that have similar values as you. This gives you an excuse to talk to both guys and girls, and come common ground to bond over. It will be difficult at first, but will get easier with repetitions. Don't sweat it man. Everyone goes through this, just take little steps, and soon you will accomplish your goal, whether that be losing the v card or finding a girlfriend or just meeting new people. Best of luck!

 
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Ok, so maybe the "worst she could say is no" part is not accurate. But your mindset should be "whatever she says doesn't matter when it's a rejection".

Your friend didn't have to stay for the roast, but he stood there like a man. I personally would stay because I could use some jokes and showing absolute confidence is the key to win over some hottest chicks.

 

The key is to not give a shit. Treat every encounter with a girl as an encounter with another human being. Treat every 10 like she's a 5. This doesn't mean be rude. Just be nonchalant and don't give them more attention than they deserve.

 

Not gonna lie I tried to get into backpill forums few years ago (dubbed "gamergate" period). I received death threats from my supposed online brethren because they found out I'm tall. Unfortunately I don't belong there

 

Join an MMA gym (boxing, Muay Thai or BJJ). You’ll gain confidence.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 
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Bruh you literally just have to be friends with one girl. Doesn't matter if she's fugly. She'll introduce you to her friends and they will introduce you to theirs and etc.

Plus, entropy will eventually stop increasing and time will end on a long enough timeline. Whatever you do won't matter in the grand scheme of things.

 

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