Seeing ex-situationship at a wedding
I'll keep this as concise as possible. Imagine there's a girl who's been in your life for a long time that you've expressed feelings for, with mixed reciprocation. You date on/off for a little while. Then you get a text out of the blue that said she doesn't want to see or talk to you anymore; she blocks your number before you can respond. At this point, you'll likely never see her again. BUT then you find out that she was invited to and RSVP'd to your one mutual friend's wedding in two months. It turns out that you will see her one more time-- dressed up, drunk, on a dance floor.
How do you act? What do you say? Unfortunately I am incapable of being a normal person when it comes to human interaction. I feel like I'll need to take some sort of action. The obvious answer is to bring a 10/10 as a plus-one date, but I'm too late for that.
Don't worry about her and just focus on having a good time king.
Thanks guys. I never really considered the fact that I could just be a normal person and move on with my life instead of trying to get the last laugh. I should try that more often.
What the person above said. Not worth investing in a relationship unless it’s two sided king
Just have a good time. Attending a wedding of an 'ex-stuationship' sometime next year. Although, we're still on friendly terms and talk weekly (neither of our partners' mind and I see her as a friend now, nothing more - she ended our 'situationship' when we were in that phase).
Wild your partners don’t mind you talking to each other when you still clearly have feelings
Nah, no feelings. Would consider her one of my best friends.
Live your best life. Don't worry about that other chick. Have fun.
I’m the girl OP is talking about. Can confirm that I will be dressed up, drunk, and dancing. Please, please, please, come up to me so I can make a scene, walk around gossiping, and ruin this wonderful occasion for everyone. Of course, I will also be giving you mixed signals just to fw you and leech off your energy.
Bring a hot date and barely notice her, it'll make her feel insecure if she's there alone. If she drinks at the reception, engages you, and seems friendly enough, maybe try your luck for a threesome. Obviously these probably don't work out if she's got her own date, but just because there's a goalie...
The only way you win here is treating her like any other guest you don't know. Be polite if you can't avoid interacting with her, but you're better off making sure the day / night is about the bride and groom and not your episode of young and the restless.
She has little relevance in your life. If a girl were asking this, her friends would say leave him as a footnote in her life story. You do the same. After this feminist movement a lot of girls don't like being chased and like being the one in control.
Ignore her, she's ignoring you
OP update here-- per the suggestions, I acted normal/tame, having no more than a few brief / reasonably friendly interactions with said girl, mostly in a group setting. I sat near her at the afterparty with the hope of engaging in some more serious conversation, but that never materialized. At one point she was about to leave with her friend/ride, but another guy she's hooked up with showed up just then, and she decided to stay, attributable directly to his presence. Now I'm depressed!
Bruh. Learn to move on. It’s a very important life skill.
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