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Personally, I wouldn't. Always had a girlfriend and she also works.

I understand the premise of that proposition and the concept though. If two people are into that and consenting adults, there is nothing illegal about it.

 

If I was a multi millionaire, hell yeah I would. Why would you not, is the better question imo

 

This is the correct answer. Lol at all the people who are like “no I want a loving, meaningful, relationship (attractive).” The number of 9/10s is low proportionally (by definition) and can date men who are 7/8+ and make several multiples of what anyone in finance will be making (NYC specific) . If you aren’t good looking and make 7 figs all-in, your chances of getting a 9/10 are close to none. Even if you compromise on looks and go down a notch, 6-7/10 as pointed out below think they’re queens and aren’t guaranteed to have a great personality either. So the next move is to look for alternate arrangements like OP is doing. I think OP is a little light on frequency (4-8 times) which allows many guys into the mix which I personally would find problematic. I’d pay more to keep it exclusive. I think it’s also worth pointing out that the relationship could very well turn into marriage one day considering the age of OP so if it works, it works you know.

P.S. Am I the only one who realizes that college would have been the best time to find someone and regret not using that time wisely?

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No. But I strongly think you might be influenced by wrong things (maybe too much pop culture) to be asking such type of questions. Quality and everlasting relationships are as defined by the companionship as they are by other important attributes: love; trust; mutual respect; and so forth 

not everyone gives a shit about "quality and everlasting relationships"

i sure as hell don't

 

What's ironic is that those instathots are 7-8s, maybe even 6s without the makeup and photoshop. But put them in expensive clothes, in a refined environment (sports car, hotel, restaurant), and somehow they appear hotter than they are. Women truly think they're hot shit

 

The best part about social media is that it makes the delusional female mind very easy to track in data. If you ever get bored go read studies of perceived attractiveness that was based on data from the dating websites.  Women have a hilariously warped view of attractiveness; their distribution curve basically looks like an inverted normal distribution curve if the midpoint was set on an 8.  Meanwhile men, who are supposedly hyper shallow and only judge on visual cues have a relatively normal distribution on the attractiveness of the overall female population.  

This along with the elevation of female achievement is creating massive societal strife.  Don't get me wrong, I am not saying we should put women back in the kitchen.  I am merely saying that this societal development pathway has drastically increased overall unhappiness and dissatisfaction in society.

 

Pic of the girls or it never happened. J/K you could send some random chicks pic, so I'll take your word for it.

What made them out of your league?

And how did you pick them up?

Something tells me you were also one of the 4+ men they were seeing. 

I think I'm too old fashion to have a sugar babe.

 

Have this 1 latina. 21 years old. 10/10. No drama, no bullshit, no time wasted. 

First date was meet and greet with a possibility of converting to a pay per meet (PPM). Coffee shop, then I took her to a bar. We just chatted and got to know each other. Discussed our arrangement. Told her 2nd dates and onwards were sugar and mutual benefit. 300 PPM. Gave her the option of converting to a PPM on the first date. And good vibes, we went through with it. Booked a hotel room. And that began our sugar relationship. 

Told her later on, if everything goes well and we continue building up a connection, I could put her on a monthly allowance, take her with me on vacations, etc. 

Total monthly cost is around $4K/month. I see her 4 - 8 times a month. And I've taken her on a bunch of trips around the world. Told her to be herself. She treats me like a rich 21 year old boyfriend, and I love it. Makes me feel young again. 

 

How old are you actually? 

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Have this 1 latina. 21 years old. 10/10. No drama, no bullshit, no time wasted. 

First date was meet and greet with a possibility of converting to a pay per meet (PPM). Coffee shop, then I took her to a bar. We just chatted and got to know each other. Discussed our arrangement. Told her 2nd dates and onwards were sugar and mutual benefit. 300 PPM. Gave her the option of converting to a PPM on the first date. And good vibes, we went through with it. Booked a hotel room. And that began our sugar relationship. 

Told her later on, if everything goes well and we continue building up a connection, I could put her on a monthly allowance, take her with me on vacations, etc. 

Total monthly cost is around $4K/month. I see her 4 - 8 times a month. And I've taken her on a bunch of trips around the world. Told her to be herself. She treats me like a rich 21 year old boyfriend, and I love it. Makes me feel young again. 

Lmao this is hysterical. Had to quote it just so you don’t delete your post. 

 

that's nice to know. How did you guys got to know each other? How long has this been going on? Sugarbabies with no drama are real stress relievers only that the daddies have to be financially capable to keep them happy.

 

Lol, really? 28 male and 21 female is a sugar baby relationship? 
 

Lose some weight and get a hair transplant or something man. That’s hardly an age difference.

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No way. Sugar baby is the easy way out. I’d get so bored at the lack of a chase/challenge, and frankly I see having a sugar baby as a coverup for insecurity/laziness.

At the end of the day if I cannot hold down a relationship based off my character/game then there is something wrong with me. I would want to develop and change that.

 
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No way. Sugar baby is the easy way out. I'd get so bored at the lack of a chase/challenge, and frankly I see having a sugar baby as a coverup for insecurity/laziness.

At the end of the day if I cannot hold down a relationship based off my character/game then there is something wrong with me. I would want to develop and change that.

At some point i do agreed on your statement, some men just enjoying the romantic process. For me, i like to skip the process, i have a sugar baby who know exactly what i want when time comes. Can't get tired of her yet. Curious to ask, how you found your sugarbaby? sugardaddy? sugarbook?

 

I highly recommend it.It takes time, effort and patience to be on the sugar dating websites. For every 20 sugar babies I talk to, I might find one that actually wants to meet in person. The rest are scammers, online only, just seeking attention, or quickly cancel their profiles. Many will respond a few times and then go silent. Consistent communication is a major issue but it does work better than serious relationships.

 

Paying for sex is the most loser beta incel male thing you could possibly do and is even worse because you now just opened neurological pathways in your brain that commodify sex which means you now look at it as a dollar expense, which means you won't have the courage to shoot your shot with the hot chick. Forever staying a mentally castrated loser. 

But hey! You saved some time!

 

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