How hard is it to come back to NYC once you leave?

I'm a 2nd year analyst at a BB. Started recruiting for 2025 roles in the fall. So far i've been saying "no" to any headhunter inbounds not based in NYC, but lately it feels like slim pickings as majority of opportunities I'm getting are in Boston/LA/SF (i'm focusing on tech PE / growth / late stage VC). 

Don't want to fuck myself over and end up with nothing so I'm considering expanding my search to these cities as well - however I know 100% I want to be in NYC long term (at least until I have a family, but that's at least a decade away). Say I take an MM/LMM offer in one of those cities - would it be an uphill battle to lateral back to NYC after a year or two? Would I likely have to go downstream to an even smaller fund?

At this point I'm thinking of joining a growth-stage startup or unicorn in Strategic Finance / Corp Dev / BizOps here in NYC then hopping to a venture fund from there. Is it even worth it to interview with small funds in other cities? Obviously if I got Sequoia in SF I'd take it but realistically those seats are filled by now.

Would love to hear from anyone who's been in a similar spot. Thanks!

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I've faced the decision many times . . do I stay in NYC (my favorite city) or leave for the otherwise better role.  I left every time.  Obviously I made it back, since I've done this many times now.  

In general, its a terrible idea to put location ahead of experience.

On the extremes (NYC vs. Detroit or something) maybe that's a tougher call.  But OP you're choosing between NYC and other top cities.  Easy call.  

 

I was in a similar position and took a role and SF and deeply regret it. I would go as far to say you should tell HH you only want NYC so they get the message and give you more nyc roles they are likely holding out on.

Also you should probably get smarter on late stage vc / growth. Sequoia doesnt recruit through traditional channels and only hires from their network / the best of the best in the vc ecosystem - rarely bankers.

 

Could someone explain to me why exactly it’s harder to move back to NYC after working in another city?

Assuming you’re in a relatively comparable role within the same market as the shop you’re recruiting for in NYC, why does it matter? Are you seen as a flight risk or something? It seems like yet again another instance of ridiculous gatekeeping in this industry. 

I did my undergrad in banking in NYC and then went to a top growth shop in Boston - I’ve always figured it would be easy to move back to NYC if needed. Not that I would honestly want to haha

 

I’m at a LMM firm in a tier 3 city. Ive been pushing hard to get back to NY. It has been tough but it’s been tough to find anything with the market. That seems to be changing lately. The biggest hurdle is just the extra logistics for visiting firms in person. Instead of just taking an uber, you’re now talking about flights, hotels, reimbursement, etc

 

Assuming you're talking about direct investing in buyout/growth/private capital roles, moving back to NYC at the VP+ level is not that easy. There's generally few open roles in the industry at VP. NYC-focused HHs also tend to view non-NYC, non-Tier1 shops as being not worth their while to push to clients. So if you're at a great fund with generally blue-chip pedigree and deal experience, but you happen to be at a rung below TPG Healthcare or Permira Tech, you're probably going to have fewer NYC looks compared to the person already in the NYC PE VP seat. Just my 2c from talking to recruiters, seeing my friends/MBA buddies go through it, etc. 

To be clear i think this is dumb, but headhunters and some NYC investment professionals are snobby af. 

 

Did banking in NY then did my associate years in SF (Silver Lake/ Francisco/TPG) then easily moved to UMM PE, even got a couple looks at other MF at the time (eg KKR) when lateraling.

So I’d echo what others are saying its more about the experience than the city. Not sure if I’d want to even work with group of people that cared about it so much

 

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