Traders, how do you feel and what do you do when your trades go wrong?

It's very obvious you cannot win all the time. How do you feel when your trades go wrong? What do you do?

Go one corner and smoke? Abuse the junior staff? Or blame yourself?

The politically correct answer would be to write this down in your trading journal so that you will not make the same mistake again, but I mean, who really does that?

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Actually, I really do do that much of the time. More importantly, I always make sure I admit that it was a failure and that, most importantly, I screwed it up. Don't blame the markets or some other bullshit. Admit you were wrong and move on. Let it hurt just enough to want to put on another trade but not enough to force you to start chasing. That i've found is the most important part. Honestly, when I make my worst trade, I'll literally walk away for a little while. Go get food, or hell even have a beer. Then go right back to your process and get back on the horse. Don't lament or whine about it and please for the love of god don't start randomly chasing or buying the same thing you just lost on. Keep your discipline and wits about you and you'll be fine.

Honestly, one thing you can also do depending on your own specific situation is make sure you tell someone else about your losing trades as well as your winning ones. Not EVERYONE, just someone. It is much easier to keep yourself honest about what went wrong when you have someone to remind you over a beer, " Hey, remember that time you bought RIMM at 60?" Or my personal favorite, " Hey, Remember when you shorted bonds with the 10 year at 2.1%"

 

I don't know man, I don't see my senior traders having trading journals. Or maybe they do it in secret. I don't know.

One thing I do know is that they scold vulgarities, especially at options expiry dates when they are on the wrong side of the trades.

 

Every now and then you're going to make a mistake. I think a majority of the people on this site are used to winning. I'm sure used to winning, I almost got ejected from a charity softball tournament because we were loosing. The very thought of loosing my money, or worse yet, an investor's money is sickening, but letting yourself sulk in one failure will turn into more and more. I generally hit the gym, then go back to research to find a great stock that will make up for my last trade.

-RR
 
RonaldReaganEvery now and then you're going to make a mistake. I think a majority of the people on this site are used to winning. I'm sure used to winning, I almost got ejected from a charity softball tournament because we were loosing. The very thought of loosing my money, or worse yet, an investor's money is sickening, but letting yourself sulk in one failure will turn into more and more. I generally hit the gym, then go back to research to find a great stock that will make up for my last trade.
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