How to decline offer twice?(asked for it back and received) it)

I wasn't able to decide between 2 offers, and declined one. but after 4 days, i regreted and asked for it back.

Manager was a bit confused, but he had me promise him that i join him this time. And told me "I took full responsibility before directors that you will join us, since we need a worker asap".

i agreed on his terms. But today i've received offer from my dream company with TC 40%+ more.

What should i do here? any tips please

That manager is Head Of Product Analytics, and i guess he has some connections in the industry. But at the same time i don't wanna pass on my opportuinity

27 Comments
 

You promised/oral commitment. Enjoy your second pick (I'm sure it's still great)

And as the other comment said, worst case you can surely lateral in 6-12 months

 

I'll give you the next level play: accept both and decide later.

After you get a sample of each then you can decide which one you want to keep. 

Just had my trade dispute rejected by Schwab for a loss of 35k. This single issue alone should be a gigantic red flag to anyone who trades on their platform. If they have a system error, and you do not video record your trading (they actually said this), they will not honour their fuck up. Switching everything away from them. Fuck this company.
 

This is hilarious ive never seen this lmao. You're going to look like a massive ass either way. This actually reminds me of that bit from Parks and Rec where Adam would interview with that accounting firm. They would be super excited that he was joining and then he would go do something else.

 

Take the one you promised. Man is nothing but his word. If you walk back on your word it will bleed into other areas of your life sooner or later and before you know it, your promises and commitments will all become worthless both to yourself and to others.  

 

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