Had this debate with my friend.
Connected with a girl who I ended up sleeping with. She lives in NYC, so I'm thinking 30+ men for a girl living in a large city such as NYC is no big deal.. especially at her age. I've met girls 20-22, that are in the same range. To me, those girls are definitely slutty.
But, at 27, you cant really expect a girl to be stuck at 7-10 guys - can you? I dont intend to date this girl and we have since parted paths. I'm just wondering if sleeping with more than 30 guys at her age is a red flag..
girlfriend slept with too many guys
How many is too many? Well the opinion on this varies. Indeed, It is very much a matter of personal preference...
from certified user @CorpFinHopeful
Probably not a red flag, it's 3.3 occasions a year since she turned 18 which isn't counting college years or the probability that she didn't in fact wait until turning 18. On the other hand it also isn't counting medium-term relationships. Who knows, this is totally a judgement call.
It's all a matter of perspective.
from certified user @DeepLearning
For one night stands, idgaf how many dudes she's slept with for the most part and might rather have a girl who is more experienced and would be willing to do more crazy shit. For a long term relationship though, i would definitely prefer a naive girl, since you can work up to the crazier stuff (and more) over time, without knowing she gets more dick than a urinal
love and ladies in the big city
from certified user @rufiolove
Lol... If she's attractive then that zip code is going to be the norm, not the exception... You may want to rethink your expectations, especially if you're dating in a big city. I don't subscribe to judgments on this issue because I think it's stupid and a double standard. But what I can tell you from experience is that your outlook is a bit naive...