Where do you find those "wifey" types that will stick with you forever?

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Since most women in clubs are just looking for one night stand/brief flings and IB girls have superiority/feminist complex. So where do you find those other wife type girls?

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Comments (143)

Nov 27, 2018

heister:

Look at all these wannabe richies hating on an expensive salad.

Nov 27, 2018

At Target. You know how many women walk out of there with useless bullshit they don't need?

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Nov 27, 2018

Stop staking me you accounting jerk

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Nov 27, 2018

nah

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Dec 9, 2018

I thought you left WSO

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Dec 9, 2018

You're like the 798023th person to say that, and this is months old. Move on champ

Dec 9, 2018

Will do.

I was away from WSO for a couple of months and someone bumped up your resignation thread so the question :).

Dec 9, 2018

You're happy I'm staying, I'm sure :)

Dec 9, 2018

It only a couple weeks old thread. Talk about exaggeration.

Nov 27, 2018

Follow the shit your fellow monkeys say @shitWSOsays

Life is hard, it's even harder when you're stupid - John Wayne

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Nov 27, 2018

Bumble and don't get specific about what you do for a while.

Nov 27, 2018

lots of catfish on there mate and after my recent experience, I'm not dating anyone from internet. Suggest some other place in NYC

Nov 27, 2018

Something tells me that you're not cut out for dating, slugger

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Nov 27, 2018
jnhadekjs:

lots of catfish on there mate and after my recent experience, I'm not dating anyone from internet. Suggest some other place in NYC

Holy fuck. Are you:

a) an incel
b) autistic
c) have downs
d) a troll

My vote is on a but holy shit man your posts are pathetic.

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Nov 27, 2018

The second part of this is super accurate. Being in finance generally doesn't help too much when it comes to actual relationships.

Nov 27, 2018

Tinder

Nov 27, 2018

Catfish and kidnappers and murderers and stalkers. Don't you watch crime watch daily?

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Most Helpful
Nov 27, 2018

In the South.

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Nov 27, 2018

Can confirm. Southern belles aplenty.

Nov 28, 2018

Where in the south? And at bars and clubs in the south? No man, I'll pass.

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Dec 3, 2018

More generalizations...surprisingly enough, there are cities in the South. and what are in cities?

Dec 3, 2018

I'll take tap water for $500, Alex

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Dec 9, 2018

Depends a lot on the state and city, girls in Atlanta are a poor man's California girl and I would never suggest going for a Florida girl. Just as obsessed with popularity, who is "hip" and trying to fit in with entertainment trends. Lots of wife material to be found in Tennessee and the Carolinas though.

Dec 13, 2018

You clearly haven't been to Buckhead

Dec 13, 2018

I have spent months in Buckhead, it is most definitely the case there and anyone arguing otherwise is a homer. The entire bar scene is SEC Greek Life 2.0 and every girl is trying to fit the mold of the California Barbie Doll, probably the most culturally toxic area of the south I have been to.

Dec 13, 2018

Not sure about the girls, but I'll give it to you on the bar scene

Dec 13, 2018

Be sure about the girls as well, they are a poor man's California girl. For real southern girls, go elsewhere in the south or hit up Savannah.

Nov 27, 2018

Daily mass, middle-class families

"This world, it is a tempest sometimes. But remember, the sun always rises again."
-- Brandon Sanderson

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Nov 27, 2018

I've known my life partner since HS, although we didn't start dating until after college.

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Nov 27, 2018

you suggesting that he looks to his local high school to find a wife?

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Nov 27, 2018

alright alright alright

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Nov 28, 2018
Nov 27, 2018

Lmao. No. Just saying stuff like this generally happens naturally.

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Dec 7, 2018
BobTheBaker:

I've known my life partner since HS, although we didn't start dating until after college.

If you didn't say "life partner" I might be willing to throw you an SB. But to each his own...

Dec 7, 2018

We aren't married breh. Can't call her my wife - yet.

Nov 27, 2018

If your wallet is big enough there is plenty of talent ready to be wifed up in Dallas

Nov 27, 2018

Been wondering the same honestly. Can never match with chicks on Bumble that are worthwhile - I'm not dating a girl that didn't go to college and I'm also not dating an art major grad that works at Starbucks.

While I do enjoy the bars once a month or so, your typical weekend bar slut is not my type. I'm big into health & fitness, a girl that can out drink me is not attractive.

Part of my issue is I live in a tier 3 city so the amount of prime talent not already wifed up is minimal.

Realistically, the best source of talent is probably your buddy's girlfriends friends, that's what I've been trying to exploit lately. Always stay in your buddy's girl's good graces.

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Nov 27, 2018

If you lift hit up the local college's gym. Go between 5-8pm when it's busy so you can ask to work in and not be a total goober. From there play your cards right and you've got it made.

Cultivating mass and wealth since '95

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Nov 27, 2018

Brilliant

Nov 27, 2018

I live in Sacramento so trust me the struggle can be real. Thankfully the ski resorts pop off in the winter ahaha. But yeah, 10/10 recommend the gym strategy. Don't even go for the kill with the girl you meet in the gym, just be a decent human being and get to know her well and get invited out with her and her friends. That's where the fun really begins

Cultivating mass and wealth since '95

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Nov 27, 2018

Mother Russia. If you hurry they may be running a sale in one of the wife catalogs.

Nov 27, 2018

Honestly, go with the approach of giving everyone a chance, regardless of where you are. Chances are, most women won't fit your preferences, that's fine. It'll be 1 out of 1000, meaning you'll have to talk to 999 women first before finding your match.

I actually met the best girls in rather bizarre circumstances, so I'm not going to suggest traditional ways that didn't work for me.

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Nov 27, 2018

Are you stupid? 1 out of 1,000 doesn't mean that your soul mate will be the 1,000th person. It can be the second for all you know. Leave statistics to people who are actually intelligent, and stick with the over-arching lesson: "You have to keep trying until you find what works." Alright, slugger?

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Nov 27, 2018
theaccountingmajor:

Are you stupid? 1 out of 1,000 doesn't mean that your soul mate will be the 1,000th person. It can be the second for all you know. Leave statistics to people who are actually intelligent, and stick with the over-arching lesson: "You have to keep trying until you find what works." Alright, slugger?

Yes sir!

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Nov 27, 2018

Lmao, made me chuckle. +1

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Nov 27, 2018

If they were the best girls then why are they past tense?

Nov 27, 2018
justphresh:

If they were the best girls then why are they past tense?

One moved to the other side of the planet, the other one I made a horrendous mistake.

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Nov 27, 2018

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Nov 27, 2018

I've found getting rid of a few "dealbreakers" worked for me. Dated a college dropout and that went well for a while.

Was eliminating too many good girls that didn't fit my exacting specifications.

EDIT: Also poor and middle class girls, go to the parts of town you think are below you (because you have a good job), and you will find a lot of great girls.

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Nov 27, 2018

Good points. I think my "dealbreakers" are what's holding me back. I actually think I fit in better with middle class girls anyways. I can't stand rich snobby girls that have done nothing for themselves but spend daddy's money.

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Nov 28, 2018
MonopolyMoney:

I've found getting rid of a few "dealbreakers" worked for me. Dated a college dropout and that went well for a while.

Was eliminating too many good girls that didn't fit my exacting specifications.

EDIT: Also poor and middle class girls, go to the parts of town you think are below you (because you have a good job), and you will find a lot of great girls.

Upper class girls tend to be ruined more by the lack of father figure rather than the actual money, at least in my experience. Generally, the father was never around because he worked too much, or he cheated on the mother, or they divorced, or all of the above, and the girl got compensated with a lavish lifestyle and little love. Result: she's incapable of any real commitment, doesn't trust men.

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Nov 28, 2018
neink:
MonopolyMoney:

I've found getting rid of a few "dealbreakers" worked for me. Dated a college dropout and that went well for a while.

Was eliminating too many good girls that didn't fit my exacting specifications.

EDIT: Also poor and middle class girls, go to the parts of town you think are below you (because you have a good job), and you will find a lot of great girls.

Upper class girls tend to be ruined more by the lack of father figure rather than the actual money, at least in my experience. Generally, the father was never around because he worked too much, or he cheated on the mother, or they divorced, or all of the above, and the girl got compensated with a lavish lifestyle and little love. Result: she's incapable of any real commitment, doesn't trust men.

Daddy Issues

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Nov 28, 2018

Indeed

Nov 28, 2018
BBDreamin:

Daddy Issues

What do we do with these chicks though? Somehow I appeal to mainly 19-25 year olds recently. I am seeking healthy relationships but get stuff like this at times:

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Nov 28, 2018

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

Nov 29, 2018

How'd it go

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Nov 29, 2018
Nightman Cometh:

How'd it go

ehhh haven't met her yet - maybe will invite her to something in Jan

I like the more confident stoner chicks really

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Nov 29, 2018

So either one of two things is going on, @Isaiah_53_5

Either you're the biggest troll out there, and got a fake picture off of the Internet to make it seem like you have 256 matches of hot women...

or you need to share your secrets.

No bullshit, if that's truly you, DM me.

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Nov 30, 2018
theaccountingmajor:

So either one of two things is going on, @Isaiah_53_5

Either you're the biggest troll out there, and got a fake picture off of the Internet to make it seem like you have 256 matches of hot women...

or you need to share your secrets.

No bullshit, if that's truly you, DM me.

It goes up by 10 a day or something.

I think most active users on there usually match with me. Just a matter of who I like. Even some chicks I have matches with aren't as hot as I originally thought, so spend time deleting a bunch too. I think I have deleted half of the 1000 matches since getting on Tinder again a few months ago.

I feel like I'm finally getting the hang of it.

Just get real chiseled and post some pics of your six pack. And some mirror selfies. I'm famous for that - but chicks love it. I don't send messages or pick up lines really. I've gotten some messages from hot chicks that want me to chase them or something and are like 'send me your best pick up line' as the first message, but I don't need pickup lines.

So I just respond - "I don't need pickup lines with these abs"..... seems to always be more than enough. Some chicks send some horribly corny lines and I can't even respond it's so bad.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Dec 3, 2018

Any workout routine to recommend for beginners?

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Dec 3, 2018
enterthemonkey:

Any workout routine to recommend for beginners?

I'm a huge proponent of bag work. Get some kickboxing classes in if you can and start there.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Dec 3, 2018

Thanks man. When I get situated a little more properly I'll definitely make the effort to join a gym with a bag.

Since your active rn, you wouldn't mind taking a quick look at my latest thread? I'd appreciate some guidance on following up..

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Dec 13, 2018

Maybe if you spent less time chatting shit on here you would too

Nov 30, 2018
Isaiah_53_5:
Nightman Cometh:

How'd it go

ehhh haven't met her yet - maybe will invite her to something in Jan

I like the more confident stoner chicks really

Do you think she's into middle aged bald guys? Asking for a friend.

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Dec 12, 2018

How old are you?

Dec 12, 2018
scramfranklin:

How old are you?

36

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

Dec 13, 2018

Nice to know it won't be over for me when I move to a better city in my early 30's. Congratz man, your'e killing it with women. I was worried I'd be too old.

Nov 29, 2018

Don't forget to charge your phone bro!

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Nov 29, 2018

Damn she messaged you first, BALLER.

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Nov 29, 2018

Weird flex but ok

To infinity... and beyond!

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Nov 30, 2018
Buzz_Lightyear:

Weird flex but ok

what about this flex

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Nov 30, 2018

^ cycling outfit

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

Nov 30, 2018

https://images.newschoolers.com/images/17/00/51/93/17/519317.jpeg

heister:

Look at all these wannabe richies hating on an expensive salad.

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Nov 30, 2018
GoldenCinderblock:

https://images.newschoolers.com/images/17/00/51/93/17/519317.jpeg

hahaha

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

Nov 30, 2018

is that a Cannondale in the back?

Nov 30, 2018
C.R.E. Shervin:

is that a Cannondale in the back?

Thats my backup bike. A steel frame Jamis Quest. Got it used for $275. Was ridden once or something, basically new. Really fun bike to ride - a great cruiser. Very clean looking. If my carbon fiber bike is in the shop and I need to cycle, I jump on this one. Or sometimes I just ride it for fun.

My main/race bike is the carbon fiber Trek Madone 5.0. I've had this frame since 2006.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Dec 1, 2018

cant beat a lugged steel frame for smoothness. Kudos to you on the Madone, that's a nice bike, even the spoke setup. i can't remember where you're based, but you ever do time trials in central park, nyc?

Dec 1, 2018
C.R.E. Shervin:

cant beat a lugged steel frame for smoothness. Kudos to you on the Madone, that's a nice bike, even the spoke setup. i can't remember where you're based, but you ever do time trials in central park, nyc?

I have ridden central park and on that bike. Its great. I did most of my riding in NYC courier style around the city. Real fast and through tight spaces. I'm not sure about time trials in central park though, I just rode for fun and didn't have a tracker at the time.

I'm based in Charleston, SC. It sucks to ride here. Nice scenery, but a lot of people, cars, potholes and other shit to deal with. I spend a lot of time doing bridge and elevation repeats and stuff like that. I did 100mi and 9,000 feet climbed last weekend here (Sat + Sun). My quads were feeling it in MMA training this week.

That bike is my baby. Its awesome. I think I paid a bit over $3K for the setup in 2006 and then added the aerobars and stuff like that. I have front and rear dash cams as well (Cycliq) although the back cam is busted and I need to send it back (rain I think). Its supposed to be water resistant.

What kind of bike do you ride?

The next races I have are a 70.3 in Florida in April and doing the 140.6 Ironman in Boulder in June (my first full Ironman). I'll probably go there 2-3 weeks before to acclimate and do some heavy riding/smoke sessions in the mountains on the bike. Lots of miles, lots of 420... gonna be a fun time to train in CO late May / early June.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Dec 1, 2018

For the little groms moving to NYC who bike though, I found alphabet city to be an incredible area for active people. The walk to the subway is longer, yes, but I skateboarded everywhere in the village and for longer distances, I'd break out the Madone.

I made a deal with my company in 2007 to basically just work my own schedule (and meet deadlines) and not really go into the office anymore.

So NYC was my playground on that bike. I'd hit up this morning spin class on Wall Street. My friend Aida Palau was usually teaching it so went to go train with her. Shes this super cool spanish chick from Barcelona. I think she's back in NYC teaching at Equinox, but mainly pilates now or something. The ride from alphabet city was serene. I was right by the crossover on 6th/D (I was on B) and would fly down on the water past China town and all the people doing Tai Chi in the mornings and hit up Wall St. in some super hippie stoner garb among all the suits and briefcases.

I'd come back and pump out some financial models, then might go swim at lunch over at Greenwich or 63/Lex. The ride to the Greenwich Equinox was stellar. Just straight over on 10th st. Bike lane and everything. I could skateboard over there on 10th on my longboard. 63/lex was quick too - I'd fly up 1st ave in that bike lane and be there real quick.

If I wanted to in the afternoons, I'd bike over to the Equinox SoHo for Amy Amato's spin class. That class always had some hot runway models in there. They were so tall though. I'm 6' and some were like 6'2 when they would get off the bike. I was like damn. Hot but a bit too tall. Ok. In general though, I really liked the vibe at Equinox SoHo the best. I'd go to Flatiron at times to the 3rd floor with the boxing bags.

I was riding on that bike to weekly CFA class and stuff too with Peter Olinto there - first up 6th ave to some hotel and then L2 was down on Wall Street. Always on the bike. It just saved a ton of time for me and was very convenient my whole time being there.

I'm looking to get back to NYC eventually. I have to be in Charleston now due to family reasons. I'm switching places next month, then hope to add another spot on the west coast next year and finally back to NYC. I love that city. I was never planning on leaving, but then started dating a girl down south again and moved back down south (we broke up a while ago though). I'm in the south most of the time, but also still visit NYC a few times a year and am on the west coast a few times per year and travel about every 6-8 weeks. I like to keep moving... 'can't stop addicted to the shindig...'

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Dec 2, 2018

@Isaiah_53_5 IIRC didn't you say you do BJJ?

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Dec 2, 2018
Tony Montana:

@Isaiah_53_5 IIRC didn't you say you do BJJ?

Yeah I do gi and no gi, but prefer no gi.

and Muay Thai, Boxing, Wrestling, etc etc

looking to develop MMA skills

my BJJ coach taught UFC fighters in FL at Coconut Creek

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Dec 2, 2018

What do you think about this?

just kiddin, don't know much about Sambo anyways.

Dec 2, 2018
Tony Montana:

What do you think about this?

just kiddin, don't know much about Sambo anyways.

I almost got into a fight with a Sambo dude on July 4, 2017 at a pool party because he got mad that I said 'I'd never heard of Sambo'.

This other guy at the party was like 'Did you say Zumbaaaaaa?' and started doing dance moves. This sambo Russian dude got realllll pisssed and wanted to grapple in the grass. I was hammered. I eventually agreed and then they pulled us apart before we started. I wasn't even mad, but this dude was pissed he wasn't getting recognition.

Haha so yeah - not familiar with it. I've heard it is brutal though. I'd like to learn defense from it at least if needed if I was facing a sambo dude.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Dec 2, 2018

As for the neck crank used in that fight, I'm a big fan of that technique as I have a lot of raw strength but can't always get deep in the neck for a pure rear naked sometimes. I don't even know if I have it, but just start cranking in various places and can get people to tap with real odd angles.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

Dec 2, 2018

had to figure out which response to reply to.

I have a Cannondale CAAD 7(2006). I have not ridden in 2-3 years, but used to ride my entire life in Central Park. I've ridden how you say, "street bike" or delivery courrier style, it is exhilarating. My favorite moments are either biking in Central Park doing laps at 9pm or being alone(beat out cars), in the above ground grand central tunnel, I felt like i had the city to myself. Growing up in the city I used to skitch back when rollerblading was cooler than skateboarding. For those who may not know it;s when you hang on to a bus or car to get a faster ride with less effort, even was able to cab surf which is when you ride on the top of the cab.

As for BJJ style, I always train with no blood chokes or cranks. One, you have to hold the position for too long, and unless you are a purple or higher the placement is too precise. I'd rather try to get the blood choke where it takes 3-5 seconds and the person is out. Life is not one of the 30 min grappling tournaments.

Funny story about the the moels in the gym, two weeks ago I worked out next to Morena Bacarrain, she is absolutely beautiful and hearing those workout grunts of hers was pretty cute too.

Dec 3, 2018

Guys, this thread was about wife type girls, not about Zumbaaaaaa

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Dec 3, 2018
jnhadekjs:

Guys, this thread was about wife type girls, not about Zumbaaaaaa

def some wifey material here ... these chicks know whatttssup rofl

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

Dec 4, 2018

I'm almost sure these "girls" are fake

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Dec 4, 2018
jnhadekjs:

I'm almost sure these "girls" are fake

https://img-s3.onedio.com/id-5626a0548cbb640017f795c9/rev-0/raw/s-70dec924b662c39f0b8bec1433d812d1dfa92e21.gif

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Dec 4, 2018

Yes I'm almost certain they're bots or scammers. Women on dating sites, even the most extroverted ones, are shy and reserved. I matched with dozens of them on Tinder but they'd never initiate contact unless I would.

Secondly, any young girl, even the most rotten and spoiled, never put up pics like that unless they're hookers or escorts. This is a fact.

So, sorry to burst your bubble.

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Dec 4, 2018
jnhadekjs:

Yes I'm almost certain they're bots or scammers. Women on dating sites, even the most extroverted ones, are shy and reserved. I matched with dozens of them on Tinder but they'd never initiate contact unless I would.

Secondly, any young girl, even the most rotten and spoiled, never put up pics like that unless they're hookers or escorts. This is a fact.

So, sorry to burst your bubble.

You definitely do sound like an accountant. Dull, boring, never knowing what life is like outside the little boxes and rules that dominate your world.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Dec 4, 2018

Yeah, most people personally attack others when they have their bubbles burst by someone. Firstly, you've been flaunting like an immature high schooler as if it's an achievement of some sort to get that many spam messages. Secondly, why would someone post a picture of themselves on this forum and their "things"? Your actions tell me you're a narcissist.

Lastly, I don't know why you think that about accountants but I actually have a life besides work unlike 90% of the people on this forum... which maybe includes you.

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Dec 4, 2018
jnhadekjs:

Yeah, most people personally attack others when they have their bubbles burst by someone. Firstly, you've been flaunting like an immature high schooler as if it's an achievement of some sort to get that many spam messages. Secondly, why would someone post a picture of themselves on this forum and their "things"? You're actions tell me you're a narcissist.

Lastly, I don't know why you think that about accountants but I actually have a life besides work unlike 90% of the people on this forum... which maybe includes you.

  1. Its your bubble that needs to be burst, not mine. I am living in reality and am making solid connections with people who I hope to network with in general.
  2. Volume does not always equal spam.
  3. When you get a six pack, you can post your picture too.
  4. Don't try to compare your life to mine.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Dec 4, 2018
jnhadekjs:

why would someone post a picture of themselves on this forum and their "things"?

What do you mean 'things'? Are you 12 years old - why don't you say what you mean? If you're talking about my bikes, those aren't just 'my things.'

That Trek Madone is my baby.

I'm sorry if you have never had a bicycle or board to know the relationship. I've been across the country with that bike. I've taken my mountain bike across the world.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Dec 4, 2018

Really? What's my bubble? I'm just calling you out for your narcissistic behavior.

Its spam, trust me.

I have but I choose not to. I'd rather stay anonymous

I'm not comparing my life to yours.

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Dec 4, 2018
jnhadekjs:

trust me.

I will do no such thing.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Dec 4, 2018

Should I post a screenshot of matching with a girl with the same pic months ago?

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Dec 4, 2018
jnhadekjs:

Should I post a screenshot of matching with a girl with the same pic months ago?

Go ahead. What I'm trying to say is that I'm using volume on there to try to find meaningful relationships. Maybe some is spam.

I'm still making headway though on networking and meeting people who share my vision for my companies and possibly would want a relationship.

hot physicist who might help me on the Chinese side of a business I am trying to build:

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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jnhadekjs:

I actually have a life besides work unlike 90% of the people on this forum... which maybe includes you.

Not sure why you said this to me, but I left the office life for the large part in 2007.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Dec 4, 2018

today

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Dec 5, 2018

The fact you commented on this after HOURS when I thought that unproductive argument was almost over is proof in itself that you're deeply unsatisfied with your life and may have some deeper issues and your only way of living your dream was to maintain that "badass" image on WSO which got somewhat damaged when I called you out. I feel sorry for you and all those "girls" chasing you. Please go get yourself checked by a psychiatrist.

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Dec 7, 2018

well said

Dec 5, 2018

Plus your comment was hilarious but frightening at the same time. You're so full of yourself, I really feel sorry for the people in your life.

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Dec 5, 2018

What a sad life you must lead

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Dec 5, 2018

This is for all the narcissists including you:

Dec 8, 2018
jnhadekjs:

they'd never initiate contact

Another memory of this for you. Random chicks initiating contact....

Was a couple years into corporate gig, looking for a switch. Decided to head to some NYC career fair and it was lammeeee - Primerica and sales and shit... was about to head out the door and some chick walked up to me...

she says... "pretty lame showing here - wanna get wasted and hook up or something?"

she was def older - but cool

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

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Dec 8, 2018

Nice fantasies.

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Dec 1, 2018

Damn man this may sound gay but you're hot. No wonder you get all the hot chicks

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Ibanker1265:

Damn man this may sound gay but you're hot. No wonder you get all the hot chicks

I think it more 'is gay' vs. 'sounds gay'. Not that there's anything wrong with that.

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It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to talk and remove all doubt plus getting shits

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Nov 28, 2018

This is really spot on. I have meet a good amount of girls who came from money and were awesome, down to earth, and for lack of a better term, normal. From what I gathered, these were the ones that came from families that put an emphasis on family, the dad was actually around, and although they had money, it didn't ruin them. In my experience this is more the exception than the norm, as most I have met are snobby, pretentious, and have an unearned sense of entitlement that was given to them as they had everything they wanted materially in place of actual love and affection as neink said above, Dad was never around, parents divorced or cheating on each other and as a result, there are serious trust/commitment issues.

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Nov 28, 2018
radio528:

This is really spot on. I have meet a good amount of girls who came from money and were awesome, down to earth, and for lack of a better term, normal. From what I gathered, these were the ones that came from families that put an emphasis on family, the dad was actually around, and although they had money, it didn't ruin them. In my experience this is more the exception than the norm, as most I have met are snobby, pretentious, and have an unearned sense of entitlement that was given to them as they had everything they wanted materially in place of actual love and affection as neink said above, Dad was never around, parents divorced or cheating on each other and as a result, there are serious trust/commitment issues.

agreed 100% on the family focus - seems like they're usually the pretty religious ones too e.g. Christian / Jewish

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neink:
MonopolyMoney:

I've found getting rid of a few "dealbreakers" worked for me. Dated a college dropout and that went well for a while.

Was eliminating too many good girls that didn't fit my exacting specifications.

EDIT: Also poor and middle class girls, go to the parts of town you think are below you (because you have a good job), and you will find a lot of great girls.

Upper class girls tend to be ruined more by the lack of father figure rather than the actual money, at least in my experience. Generally, the father was never around because he worked too much, or he cheated on the mother, or they divorced, or all of the above, and the girl got compensated with a lavish lifestyle and little love. Result: she's incapable of any real commitment, doesn't trust men.

Gotta love a good girl with daddy issues.. Or a bad one for that matter. Daddy issues make the world go round

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Dec 4, 2018
iBankedUp:
neink:
MonopolyMoney:

I've found getting rid of a few "dealbreakers" worked for me. Dated a college dropout and that went well for a while.

Was eliminating too many good girls that didn't fit my exacting specifications.

EDIT: Also poor and middle class girls, go to the parts of town you think are below you (because you have a good job), and you will find a lot of great girls.

Upper class girls tend to be ruined more by the lack of father figure rather than the actual money, at least in my experience. Generally, the father was never around because he worked too much, or he cheated on the mother, or they divorced, or all of the above, and the girl got compensated with a lavish lifestyle and little love. Result: she's incapable of any real commitment, doesn't trust men.

Gotta love a good girl with daddy issues.. Or a bad one for that matter. Daddy issues make the world go round

Would you marry one?

Dec 4, 2018
neink:
iBankedUp:
neink:
MonopolyMoney:

I've found getting rid of a few "dealbreakers" worked for me. Dated a college dropout and that went well for a while.

Was eliminating too many good girls that didn't fit my exacting specifications.

EDIT: Also poor and middle class girls, go to the parts of town you think are below you (because you have a good job), and you will find a lot of great girls.

Upper class girls tend to be ruined more by the lack of father figure rather than the actual money, at least in my experience. Generally, the father was never around because he worked too much, or he cheated on the mother, or they divorced, or all of the above, and the girl got compensated with a lavish lifestyle and little love. Result: she's incapable of any real commitment, doesn't trust men.

Gotta love a good girl with daddy issues.. Or a bad one for that matter. Daddy issues make the world go round

Would you marry one?

Absolutely not. If I did, I'd assume I was just particularly interested in making bad decisions at that point in my life.

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iBankedUp:
neink:
iBankedUp:
neink:
MonopolyMoney:

I've found getting rid of a few "dealbreakers" worked for me. Dated a college dropout and that went well for a while.

Was eliminating too many good girls that didn't fit my exacting specifications.

EDIT: Also poor and middle class girls, go to the parts of town you think are below you (because you have a good job), and you will find a lot of great girls.

Upper class girls tend to be ruined more by the lack of father figure rather than the actual money, at least in my experience. Generally, the father was never around because he worked too much, or he cheated on the mother, or they divorced, or all of the above, and the girl got compensated with a lavish lifestyle and little love. Result: she's incapable of any real commitment, doesn't trust men.

Gotta love a good girl with daddy issues.. Or a bad one for that matter. Daddy issues make the world go round

Would you marry one?

Absolutely not. If I did, I'd assume I was just particularly interested in making bad decisions at that point in my life.

Indeed

Nov 28, 2018

on a side note, wife material girls won't like the term ''wifey''

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Nov 28, 2018

WALMART.

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Nov 28, 2018

You can find them anywhere really, wife material girls go to clubs and bars as well, they just tend not to be showing all the skin they can legally get away with.

I would look at friends' friends. They will likely have a personality that you'd get on with, you have things in common, and your friend can help introduce you. But take it easy and be clear about what you want (ie. casual or serious relationship), because as she's in your wider social circle, if you fuck it up then basically everyone you know will know.

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Nov 28, 2018

All the girls my friends know are either engaged or married or taken :(

Nov 28, 2018

You gotta be worth sticking with

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Nov 29, 2018

@GoldenCinderblock

how many months did u search tinder until you found the lucky lady?

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

Nov 29, 2018

idk dawg like a year? I took it pretty srs though
arthuxtable.blogspot.com
look at this fresh-faced pink little fuck

heister:

Look at all these wannabe richies hating on an expensive salad.

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Nov 29, 2018
GoldenCinderblock:

idk dawg like a year? I took it pretty srs though
arthuxtable.blogspot.com
look at this fresh-faced pink little fuck

thats awesome

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee

Dec 1, 2018

Everyone on this thread, we should all get together and party. Would be super fun.

Nov 30, 2018
GoldenCinderblock:

idk dawg like a year? I took it pretty srs though
arthuxtable.blogspot.com
look at this fresh-faced pink little fuck

Legendary shit when you went through your Tinder phase on WSO.

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Nov 30, 2018

Oh my gosh, this is epic. Goldie, you rock, truly, LOL. "There are some 17 year old on here... you card those chicks... be careful!"

Totally forgot that arthuxtable blog was you, that blog has given me some good laughs.

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heister:

Look at all these wannabe richies hating on an expensive salad.

Nov 29, 2018

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Nov 29, 2018
TheArtMajor:

File articles of organization for an LLC using a vague name which can't be used to identify you. Deposit cash (around 10k-20k) into a bank account owned by the LLC. Run a Google search for all dating sites in your region (ex. "Dating / Singles NYC") and make a list of all of the sites that seem to be dead / inactive. Do a whois search on the domain names to find the contact information of the owners of the websites. Make cash offers to the owners in an attempt to purchase one of the sites. If they decline, up the price gradually until one accepts. Post a craigslist job ad for a part time employee to run the site (target a local college kid that majors in CS). Define exactly what attributes you are looking for in a woman (age/interests/income/education). Put together a list of websites/forums with users that fit this profile. Many sites (like facebook) will allow you to reach a very specific audience for the right price. Become an ad partner with these websites. Deploy capital into an ad campaign while monitoring the growth of your user base. Spend 3$ targeting women for every 1$ targeting men (need to have some males on there). Create a profile for yourself (research how to make an attractive dating profile). Game the system by funneling all the female users to yourself.

u w0t m8?

Nov 30, 2018

Girls in clubs don't work because they're probably there for one reason and have very low expectations of the men in those places.

And IB girls are not just feminists, they're way too career driven. You need a chick who is less career oriented, but look for her in an unsuspecting place so it's not sending the wrong signals.

I also think you should "date" more than 1 chick at once (same for women), while it's still in the non-exclusive stage,because love at first sight is really just lust at first sight.

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Dec 1, 2018

Wouldn't that be cheating or unfair to that other girl you're dating?

Dec 2, 2018

No it's not cheating if you're not exclusive. Any decent looking chick probably has 5-10 dudes hitting her up anyway. Best to give yourself the same optionaluty

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Dec 4, 2018
Ibanker1265:

Wouldn't that be cheating or unfair to that other girl you're dating?

Not cheating, unless a stated or unstated form of exclusivity is on the table. Like the other guy said, she can easily go to guy #4 or 5 if she gets tired of you. And it's about not getting too excited with one person too early. We all want to fuck at first meeting, which is natural, but falling in love too fast won't do you much good.

Nov 30, 2018

I mean, if there was an easy answer to find a place where there are attractive, wife-type, loyal woman, don't you think most ppl on the street would already know about. Do you really think most of these guys who have high profile/costly divorces or crazy wives were looking for that? Usually it takes a while for a chick to have their crazy come out, just make sure it's shown before you get hitched.

Don't specifically think of a "place" that you need to go to meet woman. That's a big mistake. You can meet woman anywhere-elevator, coffee house, in line somewhere-just have to keep an open mind. If you think I can only try to find woman at x,y or z, you're limiting yourself. Additionally, as mentioned above, don't have a specific standard when it comes to woman. Definitely have your deal/breakers, but then also have a list of "nice to have" but not definite no's. For example, a girl whose really into fitness might be high on your list, where as maybe she likes the same music as you is nice to have.

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