Disciplined but sad / feeling burnt out

Hi guys,

I’m an experienced analyst who’s decent at my job. I’ve been doing this for a few years. From Monday to Friday, I basically optimize myself so that every action is geared toward being efficient/ the best investor I can. That includes both the intellectual / investing work, and the office politics work. I’m ok enough at both that the outcomes are good. However, at the same time, I feel burnt out every now and then because it feels like every screw in my head is focused on the same thing. I try to take vacation every now and then, and have 1-2 hobbies outside of work, but still feel the burnout/ strain some times. I’m curious if others have felt the same way before/ have any recommendations.


 

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Feeling burnt out despite being disciplined and efficient is a common experience in high-pressure roles like yours. Based on the most helpful WSO content, here are some actionable recommendations to help you manage burnout and regain balance:

1. Take Meaningful Breaks

  • Vacation Strategy: When you take time off, ensure it's a true disconnect. Avoid touching your phone or work emails. Travel, spend time with loved ones, or engage in activities that genuinely recharge you.
  • Unpaid Leave: If possible, consider asking for unpaid leave after a major project. This can give you time to reevaluate and reset.

2. Set Goals Beyond Work

  • Short-Term Goals: Focus on small milestones, like making it to the weekend or planning a fun activity for Friday night. These can provide a sense of accomplishment and something to look forward to.
  • Long-Term Goals: Reflect on your career trajectory. Are you working toward a specific exit, promotion, or financial goal? Having a clear purpose can make the grind feel more meaningful.

3. Communicate and Manage Workload

  • If you're consistently overworked, communicate with your team. Let them know when your workload is affecting your performance. Reasonable managers will respect this, and it can prevent burnout from spiraling further.

4. Prioritize Physical and Mental Health

  • Exercise: Even small efforts like pushups, squats, or a quick run twice a week can make a significant difference in your emotional resilience and energy levels.
  • Healthy Eating: Fueling your body with nutritious food can improve both physical and mental well-being.
  • Stretch and Move: If you're sitting for long hours, take breaks to stretch and move around. Address any physical discomfort (e.g., back or wrist pain) proactively.

5. Diversify Your Focus

  • While you have hobbies, consider exploring new ones that are completely unrelated to work. Creative or physical activities can provide a refreshing mental shift.
  • Engage with people outside of your industry to gain new perspectives and break the monotony of work-related conversations.

6. Reassess Your Values

  • It's possible you're discovering that the grind, while achievable, may not align with your long-term values. This is a valuable realization. Reflect on what truly motivates you and whether your current role supports that.

7. Remember the Temporary Nature of the Job

  • Many analysts move on after a few years. Remind yourself that this phase is temporary and focus on the skills, experience, and financial stability you're building for the future.

Burnout is a signal that something needs to change. By implementing these strategies, you can create a more sustainable balance and rediscover your motivation. If the strain persists, it might be worth exploring roles with fewer hours or a different work culture.

Sources: Burnt out second year analyst wondering what to do, Analyst Burn Out Tips (Surviving COVID, WFH, and The Sweatiest of Shops), Analyst Burn Out Tips (Surviving COVID, WFH, and The Sweatiest of Shops)

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My hours are pretty similar and I’d say that’s quite normal for the job. The burnout phases you’re describing are also very common. I’d focus on making your workflow during the week a bit more enjoyable and really using your day off to actively switch off

 
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sadness is the nature of discipline - the good life is mostly sadness with happiness and pleasure presenting themselves unannounced, sparsely, but more and more over time. and a deep peace underlying the rough day to day. like when you know you are set long term and the important things are taken care of.

pursuing pleasure brings happiness. surface level happiness. and a deep gnawing feeling that you're ignoring something and not meeting your potential. and a long term despair - "weeping, moaning, and gnashing of teeth" - when your chickens come home

take it from someone who tried both. being sad day to day and disciplined is how it should be, absent a 10-year bull market or you being some kind of brilliant tech founder or celebrity.

 

Great answer above, nothing to add. It'd also be great to hear what exactly goes into your process of being so disciplined that you said optimizes you to be the best investor possible.

 

I understand this for sure. I've mostly given up trying to disconnect since it's not really possible (you'll always be thinking about work to some degree) but I try to keep a few things in mind:

  1. I try to never skip something that I truly want to do for work. Might work before might work after but if there's something I really want to do I try very hard to make it
  2. You need at least something to look forward to every week even if it's minor (watching one football game with a friend, soccer league etc.). That minor thing can be the difference for me between chugging along fine and really being in the dumps. 
  3. I don't know what your plans are but I get satisfaction that I'll be able to be more present for my future family / kids by getting work "out of the way" now in some sense. I like this thought because it's positive and puts a bit of a timer on the grind (staring decades of grinding in the face when you're down in the dumps is quite demoralizing) 
 

Ignore tag, been working for a while now, currently at a pod (less than 1Y). Think my sleep has taken a hit in terms of only 4 REM cycles a day, even when I'm in bed for longer the anxiety and thinking about my names keep me up/prevent me from falling asleep. My hours aren't too bad, but it's very hard to disconnect. Will a vacation help? Think will have one at EOY, but haven't talked about it.

 

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