How many of your coworkers are single?

I don't know if it's me, but it seems like there hasn't been a remotely interesting thread on the consulting forum in a while. It's just people asking us to handicap their chances at random firms, oddly specific questions about pay, and requests for information about second- and third-rate firms.

So let's try something a little more interesting. I was talking with a buddy at an investment bank last week, and I griped that the majority of my colleagues, both at the analyst and associate levels, are either married (associates) or in serious relationships (analysts/associates). He was surprised; apparently, at his bulge bracket, it's a very small proportion of the junior staff who have any kind of significant other.

I'd be curious to hear if this proportion varies by firm or by industry. So let's get some data points: give your industry, some info about your firm, and your guess at the percentage of junior people who are not single.

As for me: East coast MBB office, probably 15% single at the associate level and 40% single at the analyst level.

9 Comments
 

Good one! You can never go wrong with a marriage/relationship thread on WSO coughdatinggirlsinfinancecough

My formula for success is rise early, work late and strike oil - JP Getty
 

East coast big 4 Consulting office.

20% Single at the Analyst Level, though the definition of taken seems to be flexible depending on a wide variety of factors. Estimated would say 50% Committed and Serious.

80% Married at the Associate level.

Life, liberty, and the happiness of pursuit.
 

Man, it's kind of shocking you guys saying so many people are in serious relationships at a junior level. The lifestyle seems to be more appropriate for a single guy. I don't know about you guys but part of what I am looking forward to in the consulting life (assuming I get a job) is slaying all the women in the different cities. amirite?

 
Best Response
2x2Matrix
bears1208Man, it's kind of shocking you guys saying so many people are in serious relationships at a junior level. The lifestyle seems to be more appropriate for a single guy. I don't know about you guys but part of what I am looking forward to in the consulting life (assuming I get a job) is slaying all the women in the different cities. amirite?

Actually, no, it's pretty hard to do anything when you leave work at 12am when you're on the road. If running through women is your thing, there are plenty in whichever city you live in, so traveling doesn't change anything.

I was more surprised just because most of my college buddies were either single or very loosely attached, while it's pretty different where I work.

I was pretty much being sarcastic, though it is still odd to hear you say that most of them are involved because I have the same experience as you. Most of the kids I know going into banking and into consulting are the type that haven't held too many long term relationships up to this point.

 

For my office (rough percentages based on observation, sample space is roughly 10 per level per gender)

(gender, percent single)

BAs: male, 60 female, 50

Consultants: male, 70 (weird) female, 40

Senior Consultants male, 50 female, 40

Managers: male, 40 female, 20

Senior Managers: male 20, female, 10

-MBP
 

Iusto quasi quasi voluptates magni placeat tempore ullam itaque. Eligendi et repellat eos accusantium asperiores. Libero aut facere aut in est aut nostrum. Quo dolores distinctio blanditiis error ipsum nisi sint. Et non est asperiores.

Et rerum impedit cum molestiae culpa id magnam. Vero aut nihil rerum eos architecto. Libero repellat sit voluptate iusto eos. Mollitia rerum unde perferendis enim neque natus. Officiis aspernatur nihil dolores accusamus quo in laudantium. Magni nam aut error omnis molestiae. Asperiores modi suscipit cum sint aut iste ut.

Career Advancement Opportunities

July 2026 Consulting

  • Boston Consulting Group 99.5%
  • Bain & Company 98.9%
  • McKinsey and Co 98.4%
  • Oliver Wyman 97.9%
  • LEK Consulting 97.4%

Overall Employee Satisfaction

July 2026 Consulting

  • Cornerstone Research 99.5%
  • Bain & Company 98.9%
  • Boston Consulting Group 98.4%
  • McKinsey and Co 97.9%
  • Oliver Wyman 97.4%

Professional Growth Opportunities

July 2026 Consulting

  • Bain & Company 99.5%
  • Boston Consulting Group 98.9%
  • McKinsey and Co 98.4%
  • Oliver Wyman 97.9%
  • LEK Consulting 97.4%

Total Avg Compensation

July 2026 Consulting

  • Partner (4) $361
  • Principal (30) $294
  • Director/MD (58) $274
  • Vice President (53) $247
  • Engagement Manager (113) $232
  • Manager (170) $173
  • 2nd Year Associate (185) $142
  • 3rd+ Year Associate (116) $135
  • Senior Consultant (355) $132
  • Consultant (642) $122
  • 1st Year Associate (577) $121
  • 3rd+ Year Analyst (164) $121
  • NA (16) $114
  • Engineer (6) $114
  • 2nd Year Analyst (391) $104
  • Associate Consultant (176) $101
  • 1st Year Analyst (1164) $90
  • Intern/Summer Associate (208) $83
  • Intern/Summer Analyst (633) $68
notes
16 IB Interviews Notes

“... there’s no excuse to not take advantage of the resources out there available to you. Best value for your $ are the...”

Leaderboard

1
redever's picture
redever
99.2
2
BankonBanking's picture
BankonBanking
99.0
3
kanon's picture
kanon
99.0
4
Secyh62's picture
Secyh62
99.0
5
Betsy Massar's picture
Betsy Massar
98.9
6
CompBanker's picture
CompBanker
98.9
7
dosk17's picture
dosk17
98.9
8
GameTheory's picture
GameTheory
98.9
9
DrApeman's picture
DrApeman
98.9
10
Mimbs's picture
Mimbs
98.8
success
From 10 rejections to 1 dream investment banking internship

“... I believe it was the single biggest reason why I ended up with an offer...”