Can't get ahead nowadays, even with parental help
Hi everyone, I am finding myself in quite a unique situation. I do not think I will ever be able to afford a house, let alone a wife and kids even with parental support in the early stages of my career.
For further context, I work at a boutique IB in CA making slightly below street base (between 90k - 110k). This used to be a decent chunk of change, but now its piss money. The only reason I have been able to save a little bit for some international trips is because my parents pay for my studio in a nice area. They also give me an additional allowance of $1000 a month.
I have been able to save some money, but prices just keep rising. I have no debt, but it will still be a few years until I own my first property. Is there anyone in this situation? I'd love to hear more about how to navigate.
I hear you completely. Back in my days as an assistant branch manager at the Wells Fargo - Anchorage branch, I lived through one of the harshest economic downturns in history.
The year was 2017 and the unexpected salmon migration caused salmon prices to double that year. We were so desperate, we relied on the subsidized wells fargo vending machine which sold chips for $0.75.
I realized then and there that the rat race is meant to keep you broke, and so I booked a one way ticket to Chattanooga, where I have lived ever since, hitting 15 below par on the muni.
Navigating your situation requires a mix of financial discipline, strategic planning, and a long-term perspective. Based on the most helpful WSO content, here are some actionable steps and insights:
1. Focus on Long-Term Career Growth
2. Delay Instant Gratification
3. Reassess Housing Goals
4. Leverage Parental Support Wisely
5. Invest in Yourself
6. Maintain Perspective
By combining these strategies, you can navigate your current challenges and position yourself for long-term success. Keep pushing forward—your situation is not uncommon, and with the right approach, you can achieve your goals.
Sources: Buying a ~$600k house at 25, Keys to Success?, Principles; What Are Your Main Governing Principles in Navigating Life and Your Career, Career Path Starting as Credit Analyst, Advice On a Career
Oh man I feel awful for you. That’s a tough situation. I would suggest sending me your allowance each month. At least that way it goes to a deserving person
Whats your Zelle
If you can’t save anything when your parents pay your rent and groceries then you’ve got some serious spending problems bud.
It's not about saving ANYTHING. I am definitely saving but like after 2 years of banking I would have only saved up maybe 50 - 100k which is not much at all in CA.
For starter CA homes you're gonna have to fork up at least $1M. I'm barely gonna get the down payment I need, let alone be able to afford family vacations and my kids' private school tuition. Just feel super poor rn.
bro just ask your payments for the down payment ? This is not hard.
buddy... your not supposed to buy a house in LA this young. Nobody does. Get a grip.
Majority of millionaires in the U.S were made mainly due to home appreciation. Stay in the renter class if you want
There's also a huge difference between having a large portion of your net worth tied up in something like home equity as opposed to stocks or other liquid assets. Sure, you can sell your home in CA and move to OH, but I really haven't seen anyone do this. It's pretty challenging to abandon your family/friend circle when you're retirement age, especially if you aren't married. Trust me, I understand that owning a home can be an excellent investment, but I also think OP thinking he should be buying a home as a single guy in CA right out of college is a bit ridiculous, and I say this as someone who lived in Santa Monica for 2 years.
yeah because buying a home in LA (top 5 most expensive cities on the planet) at under 28 years old is the equivalent to renting for life. Additionally, if someone becomes a millionaire solely off their home appreciation alone then they're doing the rest of their finances wrong. Buying a home is not always a great investment. It ties up a large portion of capital and bootstraps you to one area. Especially being young, it is foolish. I usually would assume 99.9% of people in finance, especially a banker, would know this. Wierd.
This must be rage-bait, and if it is you guys are falling bad
Can financial advice not be asked on this website? I swear this website just gets lower quality users day by day.
Eum et tenetur cum iste suscipit rerum qui et. Dolorum minus autem quibusdam autem ipsum commodi. Illo quae quia facere voluptatem omnis asperiores cumque.
Veniam fugiat qui dolorum velit id assumenda ratione. Nobis iste commodi quaerat temporibus saepe ea eum. Laboriosam expedita optio eius minima. Ut consequatur voluptate alias exercitationem.
Sunt nulla repellendus dignissimos hic sed molestias. Dolores magnam aut incidunt ipsa officiis. Maxime est adipisci ut suscipit maxime ducimus. Sapiente magni quas soluta optio in molestiae. Ullam est sunt et ut. Soluta vel rem sint voluptas voluptatum. Nisi eligendi mollitia dolores voluptatem.
See All Comments - 100% Free
WSO depends on everyone being able to pitch in when they know something. Unlock with your email and get bonus: 6 financial modeling lessons free ($199 value)
or Unlock with your social account...