How to deal with an extremely annoying friend

A friend of mine recently received a summer offer at the Charlotte office of a firm that rhymes with "Fells Bargo."

My firm is smaller, but my total comp is significantly higher than his will be if he gets a FT offer. My friend WILL NOT shut up about how his firm is "top in the league tables" and how "lev fin has the hottest deal flow" despite not being able to explain how they fit into a typical deal process.

I don't want to crush him, as he's a great guy. He's just gotten a little heady and I would hate to see him ruin the summer experience by being too arrogant during his time at the firm. Is this something that I should address, or do I let him cook for a bit and see where it all shakes out?

6 Comments
 

I went all-in for the WF SA 2024 process. I remember seeing this friend in the superday roster and then seeing him update the WSO thread that he got the offer. I didn't. I wish him the best of luck.

Tell him, plain and simple, to "figure it out". If he doesn't know where the LevFin group is located in a deal process then there's some things he still has to learn before dominating the streets of Charlotte.

If nothing else, tell him he better live up to his shit-talking, because there's one kid from that superday that would still kill for that spot, even now, four months later.

 


As far as de-hardo'ing, that was something I took away from not getting the WF offer and what ultimately led to me landing the offer that I finally did.

That's kinda what I meant by "figure it out." Acknowledging that nobody gives a fuck about your junior summer play-pretend job is the first and biggest step to take.

You should get rid of the rhyme for his name, btw. I haven't thought of him since the superday and I immediately remembered his name from this.

 

The hardo phase builds at college and peaks to the first 2-3 years of having a full time offer. Just let him have his fun of viewing himself as a badass despite being a complete nerd like 90% of this board and he will eventually come down from it

 

Accusantium perferendis dolores occaecati facilis. Est iste eaque alias est aliquid. Pariatur nesciunt omnis sint nesciunt asperiores. Soluta sapiente ab quasi eaque qui distinctio ratione. Itaque ut harum consectetur ipsa.

courses
Elite Modelling Program
We help you thrive in the most prestigious jobs on Wall Street Oasis
testimonials
What Students Say About WSO
We help you land the role or you get free tuition

Career Advancement Opportunities

July 2026 Investment Banking

  • Evercore 01 99.4%
  • Moelis & Company 01 98.9%
  • JPMorgan 01 98.3%
  • Goldman Sachs 01 97.8%
  • Guggenheim Partners No 97.2%

Overall Employee Satisfaction

July 2026 Investment Banking

  • Moelis & Company No 99.4%
  • Evercore No 98.9%
  • Morgan Stanley 01 98.3%
  • Banco Santander 02 97.7%
  • BMO Capital Markets 12 97.2%

Professional Growth Opportunities

July 2026 Investment Banking

  • Evercore 01 99.4%
  • Moelis & Company 01 98.9%
  • Morgan Stanley 06 98.3%
  • Goldman Sachs 01 97.8%
  • JPMorgan 01 97.2%

Total Avg Compensation

July 2026 Investment Banking

  • Vice President (16) $429
  • Associates (46) $258
  • 3rd+ Year Analyst (8) $210
  • 2nd Year Analyst (23) $182
  • Intern/Summer Associate (14) $159
  • 1st Year Analyst (81) $150
  • Intern/Summer Analyst (73) $101
notes
16 IB Interviews Notes

“... there’s no excuse to not take advantage of the resources out there available to you. Best value for your $ are the...”

Leaderboard

1
redever's picture
redever
99.2
2
BankonBanking's picture
BankonBanking
99.0
3
Secyh62's picture
Secyh62
99.0
4
kanon's picture
kanon
99.0
5
CompBanker's picture
CompBanker
98.9
6
dosk17's picture
dosk17
98.9
7
GameTheory's picture
GameTheory
98.9
8
DrApeman's picture
DrApeman
98.9
9
Betsy Massar's picture
Betsy Massar
98.9
10
Jamoldo's picture
Jamoldo
98.8
success
From 10 rejections to 1 dream investment banking internship

“... I believe it was the single biggest reason why I ended up with an offer...”