regret not studying finance; IB FOMO; need advice/insights
I'm a girl graduating w marketing degree from non-target school. I think I have a good skillset for marketing. I also wanted to prioritize my mental health and WLB. Like most women, I want to have kids one day and don't want to over-stress myself. Part of me wants to feels like I'm meant for more than just marketing- but marketing would be a good career still.
Many of my friends are doing IB post-grad and I am getting major FOMO. I feel like I should've studied finance and tried to get into IB/PE... But it's basically too late for me now. I've only developed an interest in finance recently. I wish I got into it sooner.
I took a few finance/quant college classes required for my business degree, and I actually liked them and found it intellectually stimulating/challenging. I like working with Excel.
I've dated finance guys and see the work they do and I know I'm capable of it too. But they hate their jobs lol and I don't know if I'd want their lives.
I have family/friends that work in IB and they are pretty miserable but the money is good. I prob wouldn't be happy/fulfilled with a career in finance. I'm just so enchanted by the money/success/prestige. I am capable of the work itself - but I know I'm probably not cut out for the lifestyle. Also, how do you have time for dating for marriage and social life w friends????
I'm considering maybe consulting eventually in big 4 after working a few years.... (idk if MBB is attainable).
Maybe career in IR/client relations? What steps would I take w marketing for IR? Or try for MBA to recruit for IB or consulting instead? Maybe consulting would be better for me..... Help :( Go easy on me pls.
It sounds like you're at a crossroads, and that's completely normal. Based on the most helpful WSO content, here are some insights and advice tailored to your situation:
1. FOMO and Regret About Not Pursuing Finance Earlier
2. Your Skillset and Interests
3. MBA as a Pathway
4. Balancing Career Ambitions with Personal Goals
5. Next Steps
Final Thought
It's easy to romanticize IB or finance, but as you've observed, many professionals in these fields are unhappy despite the money and prestige. Success isn't just about the title or paycheck—it's about finding a career that aligns with your values, interests, and lifestyle goals. You're already ahead by recognizing what matters to you. Keep exploring, stay curious, and don't be afraid to pivot if your interests evolve.
Sources: Why Would Anyone Go Into Consulting?, Transitioning from tech to a serious finance job (yes, you read that right), Q&A: Non Target. Non Diversity. No Networking. BO to MO to FO at BB., Post MBA IB associates, how did you know you could handle the life?, Are you guys happy with life? Help me please.
You arent missing out on anything special
Most of my friends and family have good incomes and great lifestyles. And none of them work in any finance-related professions.
care to share what they work in? in case anyone is looking to pivot. ty :)
You see all these recent posts about burn out and hospitalization from IBD and still have FOMO? 😭
I'd like to think you could do marketing --> MBA --> Equity Sales --> IR
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