Working in IB was always a dream of mine, but after my girlfriend started making $7000+ over a month by selling her feet/cosplay pictures I feel depressed and lost.
The girl I've been dating for the last 3 years started her OnlyFans a year ago to have extra money. She promised me not to make any NSFW pictures, or porn type of thing so I said, sure. For the last year, she has been selling her feet pics along with her pictures in cosplay without any nudity. In the first month, she made around 200$, and I was suprised that she made that much. But, literally she doubled that money every month, and in December, she made more than $7000. There's literally no nudity, just feet pics and hot pics in cosplay. I didn't say anything to her but I'm really depressed about this.
I've interned at a BB IB last year and worked more than 12 hours every day. She is just spending 30-60 minutes to take pictures with the cosplay she bought from Walmart or another cheap-ass store or 60 seconds to take a picture of her feet. She doesn't even need to do advertising or do anything on her social media. Because the guys are literally paying her to moderate her social media to ''help her''. I'm studying hours and hours to keep my GPA over 3.5 while she is studying art-history and making $7000 month with couple of pictures. I also have acces to her account, and I'm seeing guys sending her $100, $500 and so much more money for weird pictures (hold a pickle between your toes, cover your feet with peanut butter etc.) So many guys are offering thousands of dollars for her used panties/socks/fishnets. I literally can't understand this either. Why ?? You can probably get the best hooker in any city with that type of money, but you're offering to buy someone's socks/panties ? Like, wtf ??
It's so fucking unfair. I don't know what to do. I'm angry, sad, depressed and to be honest jealous too. She didn't expect this type of attention and money too. I feel like everything I'm working for is meaningless while people who have no skills or intelligence are making this kind of money. How can I cope with this ?
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@sisterofdartboardmonkey
Haters gonna hate. Start your own foot fetish OnlyFans.
World isn’t fair bud. It’s not sustainable nor is it fulfilling. Imagine telling your friends and parents that your job is dressing up and selling pics to strangers on the internet. We’re all on our own paths so just keep doing you and make sure your gf doesn’t fall deeper into the rabbit hole (nudes, porn, meetups, etc).
Your girlfriend is making bank. You should be happy for her (if you’re okay w OF) instead of being jealous of her
go to a clinic -> tell them you're a woman >>> ask for hormones -> change your pronouns -> start using your hormones -> get laser hair removal -> put trans flag on your name -> burn everything in your wardrobe -> buy women's clothing -> change your name -> join to SJW/ANTIFA cult -> become bitter -> get the surgery -> now you're a woman -> start selling ur pictures because it's not unfair anymore -> if you fail -> now you can also apply to any job as diversity hire -> you're welcome -> not a medical advice
I think you're tweaking a little bit bro.. if I was in your position I'd consider myself lucky, that's a solid side hustle and if anything you should be helping her capitalize off those neck beards paying thousands for a minute of attention. I understand why you'd be jealous or have Ill feelings towards it(I would too), but the fact that she doesn't post any nude content tells me that she still respects you and the relationship, why not be happy for her ? Girls make jokes about this shit all the time but not many find success like this without even posting any nude content. I'd milk it if I were you.
Additionally it's not like she'll be doing this forever, no idea how long onlyfans will be around for but as long as she doesn't fall deeper into the rabbit hole, what's the issue here ? Your ego is hurting? There's males on OnlyFans making the same amount of money she is so you can't really compare yourself like that, girls have it much easier since they don't necessarily need a Calvin Klein model body to gain traction. Accept that and it'll help you sleep at night.
if she does want to eventually post nude content or thinks it will make her more money , you guys can fuck and post videos of that, keep your faces out or whatever but sounds to me like you got a goldmine , quit bitching.Ofcourse if she goes down the wrong rabbit hole you gotta dip but if it's under control it's under control. I understand some people would just rather avoid all this drama altogether but I think there's some good boundaries here and glad she's sticking by them.
I would highly advise you break up with this woman if you have an ounce of common sense. No further explanation needed.
Scary that not more people on comments agree on this and instead are talking about how they synergize perfectly, etc. lmao
This is so true. This post in itself is an insane red flag. Any high quality / high-performing woman who is building an impactful professional career will never resort to OnlyFans as their primary income / career. OP please leave before you get trapped in the relationship. There are so many beautiful and quality women out there who are building great careers in various different fields and giving positive impact to the world.
Please break up with her immediately. She deserves better than some insecure loser who struggles to maintain a 3.5 GPA and is literally envious of his girlfriend.
LIfetip: Don't count other people's pockets. It will never make you happy.
Lifetip: Pursue excellence. Do the work. Keep on your grind. Grow your career.
Am I the only one who doesn't see anything wrong with what she's doing?
I mean $7k for sfw pics is a literal killing. She never would've made that much with her degree.
As for OP, long term income scalability is tipped in your favor....i.e. imagine exiting to running your own startup or literally ending up as a CEO of a F500. It's possible.
OF definitely has an income ceiling for non-celeb content creators.
Long term income scalability might be in your favor, but your shitty attitude is not. I'd be thrilled AF if my gf could pull in $7K for essentially free, heck I'd take the pics for her lol, maybe I could get a cut of the earnings....
I'll end the relationship. If that's wifey material I'm the fucking Pope of Rome.
The absolute state of American society when he:
1) didn't dump her when she started asking about the OnlyFans
2) didn't dump her when she decided to pull through with it
3) didn't dump her when she actually started doing it
4) still hasn't dumped her and goes on a finance forum to ask what he should do, but still doesn't realize why it's wrong but instead blames it on some abstract economic contrast, as if that's what's wrong here.
This is probably a troll, but Jesus Christ do men need to learn how to get a grip on their women. This is just sad.
This generation has the weakest men of all generations. No solid boundaries or hardlines or core beliefs with virtue. Keeps getting swayed by women without any self-respect or self-reflection.
I would agree with you, but her OnlyFans has no nudity. She asked OP for permission, honored his wishes, and also gave access to him so he can check. I don't think he should dump her for this.
What's so depressing about this situation is how you and many others actually think that what's wrong with this whole ordeal is built upon some technicality, i.e. that she is running an OnlyFans without nudity. Not that she's doing OnlyFans at all. Digital prostitution is still prostitution. Sure, women's independence and western liberalism, go crazy. But let's call a spade a spade, as they say, any legitimate, long term relationship that has even a slight chance of lasting has to be built upon fidelity and practical loyalty. Do you get what I mean by practical loyalty? I mean a relationship where there isn't questioning in terms of loyalty and there isn't envy or jealousy that goes beyond the amount that is considered healthy.
Like I said before, American men need to get a grip on their women, because it's honestly just pathetic. And no, you're not modern nor a feminist for supporting your girlfriend in a pursuit like this, you're just a pathetic cuck pushover who lost his spine, very, very long ago. It's seriously worrying when most men in American society aren't having sex consistently and the few that are, have relationships like OP's. Not my personal concern nor problem, I'm well removed and most bankers end up marrying 'elite tier' women, but in the long run this a seriously detrimental trajectory to be on as a whole.
But hey, at least she's independent and he's not sexist (or something like that).
Islam was right about women
Break up with her or you’re a cuck
This is a weird thread with some weird takes
Also, imagine potentially one day marrying an onlyfans chick ...... lmao
Yeah it's wild and pretty sad how the newest generations have ended up normalizing this, as if quality girls are found on OF / IG. Doesn't affect me much as I scroll past these girls (though arguably the pool of girls degrades over time as stuff like this becomes 'normal to do') but even so it's a huge negative for society
A few things to help you cope.
1 - Prostitution is the oldest job in civilization, but is not prestigious due to the low barrier to entry. It is an unskilled, blue-collar job. Console yourself with the knowledge that history books shall carve your name and legacy in stone, if you choose to leverage your impressive alma mater and high finance ivory tower career path into the ivory and golden towers of politics, like I have.
2 - Nobody will tremble in fear before a prostitute. Men tremble in fear before my due to my exalted alma maters (Oxford and Wharton), my work experience (CVP, PJT, MBB, PE MF) and my soft power (My office within the parliament grants me command over a black ops unit that recieves ~£170,000,000 of funding annually and including reserve units, numbers around 6,500. Virtually an army with multiple armored vehicles, UAVs and artillery pieces.
3 - Her earning power shall fade as she withers and rots in appearance. Yours will not. In fact, it will increase with age.
Why not start banging her in cos play with your faces covered but keep your feet out on cam and split the profit.
Bro just said his girlfriend has no skills or intelligence 🤣