How I used coffee chats to secure my dream job

I graduated with a mediocre 3.0 GPA and no relevant internship experience (spent every summer doing labor work). In my last semester of school I was applying to jobs online and got zero traction from that. I moved to a new city when I graduated and formulated a job hunt plan (with the help of this forum).

In total I sent 200-300 cold emails and went on over 30 coffee chats. I tracked this all in an excel file and I added everyone I had a coffee chat with on LinkedIn, once I had a bigger LinkedIn network and the people I emailed saw mutual connections I had a much higher response rate.

2 months after graduating I secured a job in real estate development, my dream industry (I got lucky - 2 months is very quick). Real estate is extremely network based and networking is the only way I could have broken in with such a mediocre GPA.

I wrote a guide about how I did it, that includes the following:

  • How to track your progress
  • Writing a great cold email (with sample scripts)
  • Preparing questions and conversation topics for your coffee chat
  • Coffee chatting and the importance of having questions
  • Writing a thank you note that leaves a good impression 

The guide is almost 5000 words which is overkill but I wanted to share what I did to secure my dream job with coffee chats. Hopefully this will help people that want to use coffee chats to help break into a new industry or find a new job.

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