Clout and am I too nice?

So was talking to friends recently and they said I was too nice and respectful. I asked the GF and she kinda dodged the question but I could tell how she really felt. I have never had "beef" with anyone and if I have an argument/disagreement I don't start a fight over it or try and make them look bad, just take care of it privately. I also don't have much of social media following. How does one garner clout/start beef with people? How can I not be the "nice friend"?

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I mean, that's quite disrespectful of your GF to avoid answering, and the fact that she considers you "nice and respectful" (=weak) is dangerous because girls don't like weak men, so there's a risk she cheats on you with a more alpha dude or straight up breaks up with you.

See how Detective Prendergast finally tells his wife to shut the fuck up at the end of Falling Down? You have to be like him. You can even act a bit like an asshole to shit-test her, but never back up, never apologize.

 

Her sisters kinda hot, not gonna lie. I haven't cheated but def made out with her more than a few times. Do you thinks I should fuck her sister to show dominence.

 

What? Gonna break up with her anyway. Her sister is a better person. Might be awkward for a bit since we all live together but hopefully she’ll get over it. 

 

It does not. Honestly the only person I’m really concerned about is my uncle, I don’t think he’ll approve of me sleeping with both his daughters. It was hard enough convincing him the first time.

 
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Honestly the only person I'm really concerned about is my uncle, I don't think he'll approve of me sleeping with both his daughters. 

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When people refer to someone as too nice, they usually mean that the person is seen as passive, conflict-avoidant, or soft-stanced. It's important to be nice most of the time and it's okay to be easygoing but you start heading into soft territory when you don't take a stance on something you want or you don't stand your ground on your views (within reasonable means). 

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Some gems in this thread. On a serious note OP, if you know she thinks there's an issue with you, but she doesn't want to communicate with you about it, maybe it's time to look somewhere else. If you can't communicate about it, it's not going to end well anyway

 

I have one concern, my uncle will not be happy about me sleeping with both his daughters. How do you think I should approach this?

 

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