Did anyone become sexually submissive after working in IB ?

I had a pretty decent childhood, slept with many different girls, and during college I even had chance to try BDSM stuff as a dom/daddy. I don't have any traumas or anything like that.

I met this freaky girl this year. I'm 26 normal looking finance guy, and she is 23 goth/emo/alt whatever you call it. She is a feminist, very-liberal, ''anti-capitalist'', vegan etc., that bullshit, but who cares ? At the beginning we always had normal sex or sex me as a dominant. She wanted to try something different a month ago, being the dom while having sex, Thought of lying on the bed doing nothing while a girl jumping on you felt good so I said alright.

I don't even have any words for explaining the things I felt at that moment. I was literally lying on the bed tied, and doing nothing while she is doing everything she can sexually... One of the best moments of my life... It felt so wonderful to let her take the control and do everything by herself.

I believe, I wouldn't have let her do it if I didn't work it in IB, because after spending fucking days at that office I don't want to complicate things, but when she is willing to do it by herself, that's perfect.

Don't get me wrong, I still like dominating but getting into this submissive stuff too.

After researching for some time, I learned that being a submissive in bed was common for people who worked in high-stress jobs.

Did anyone here liked being a submissive in bed after working in IB or any other high-stress job?

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