Don’t you feel sorry for some pornstars like Alison Tyler?

I mean she’s too perfect. She has the height, I think above six feet, wide shoulders and perfect natural breasts. She is all natural unlike other pornstars, or mostly, and she’s just too gorgeous. I love her but I kind of feel sorry for her too like she could’ve been anything else more dignified and she wouldve been very successful too because people love beautiful women like her, like she could be a model because she really is a model material... or something else I don’t know. Don’t you guys sometimes kinda feel sorry for pornstars like that?

 

A lot of pornstars are sexually abused as children... subjecting themselves as sexual objects is mask of their shame and guilt. You can even find stories circulating of incidents during tapings on set of girls being sexually assaulted. It’s unfortunate - because many of them were children robbed up of their innocence, and didn’t receive the immediate therapy to assist the psychological trauma that follows molestation. Some come to their senses later on in life, and seek help after making so many poor decisions. Others self medicate, but a career choice is still a choice.

https://slate.com/human-interest/2012/11/porn-stars-and-childhood-moles…

 
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A lot of pornstars are sexually abused as children... subjecting themselves as sexual objects is mask of their shame and guilt. You can even find stories circulating of incidents during tapings on set of girls being sexually assaulted. It’s unfortunate - because many of them were children robbed up of their innocence, and didn’t receive the immediate therapy to assist the psychological trauma that follows molestation. Some come to their senses later on in life, and seek help after making so many poor decisions. Others self medicate, but a career choice is still a choice.

https://slate.com/human-interest/2012/11/porn-stars-and-childhood-moles…

This is why I support the death penalty for those who sexually abuse children--it destroys lives. These men should be castrated, drawn and quartered.

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Although this probably won’t happen, I think we should put these people to work. Have them actually give back to society. Do tough manual labor that nobody wants to do. Test new medication on them and see how it affects people. Back in the day the CIA tested LSD on random people. Why not do shit like that on people who have taken from society? Make them give back.

If they refuse, it’s cheap as fuck to get a few shotgun slugs and I can garantee it’s effective.

“The three most harmful addictions are heroin, carbohydrates, and a monthly salary.” - Nassim Taleb
 

The thing I don't understand is losing your dignity is one thing but why do a job that disables you from do anything else outside of porn? God forbid, you have to venture out to do something else. Look, it's inevitable... porn stars will get older, someday, have kids, hell, you might get into a car accident and can't perform anymore. Is the money really worth it in the short run? I guess so. Some people aren't forward looking into their future... its 4:47am here and I'm currently studying programming. I have to get up at 6:30am for work. Nothing in life is easy nor free. They're willing to sacrifice and I'm willing to sacrifice, it comes down to what are you willing to sacrifice.

 
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The thing I don't understand is losing your dignity is one thing but why do a job that disables you from do anything else outside of porn? God forbid, you have to venture out to do something else. Look, it's inevitable... porn stars will get older, someday, have kids, hell, you might get into a car accident and can't perform anymore.

Why should being a porn star mean you lose your dignity? Actors do nude scenes. Should they have no dignity? You seem eager to apply your own standards of what is right and wrong to someone else. I'd bet a sizeable portion of the population has made a sex tape, sent nude pictures, etc. Why are they any different, except that they don't get paid for it? As others have said, many get into porn because of traumatic past experiences. Others don't. It's a choice they make, to make a living with their body, the same as pumping gas or stocking shelves. There is as much dignity to it as working for a soulless investment bank, depending on your perspective.
 

I assume it's like many jobs that rely on social influence/celebrity though. Many start off in that industry unwittingly/without a clear goal (sometimes, unfortunately, desperate enough to think that's the only option--I'm sure there are some who do it out of "passion/I love this work" but I'm going to assume most who claim that are using that as a self-branding measure), but as their career progresses you'll see that some "figure it out" and start diversifying their business/building their brand. They won't just be shooting videos a few times a month, but launching their own merchandise, doing private calls, writing blogs/books, partnering with other performers, advertising, etc.. And I wouldn't be surprised if some pornstar ends up doing some adult-related PE either (perhaps that's consolidating small performers, merging esort services,etc.), based on having "hands on" operating experience and such.

 

The way I see it, the only way to resolve your sadness is to donate $1000 and a couple of packs of Chef Boyardee to her OnlyFans page. It may sound like a lot, but you know simpin' ain't easy

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