Exit Ops of Dating MDs daughter?
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someone please share what occurred here
OP was asking whether or not he should date the MD's daughter.
Sounds like the fastest way to getting access to a yacht is to marry her.
You mean ride on the yacht to the middle of the sea and be dumped overboard tied to an anchor.
That comes later
Out at sea, he can't say no. Because of the implication
You can't see any downside to this?
Just need get him P&L and it'll be ok
Just never give him P&L and it'll be fine
OP - no downsides? Yeah right. Break her heart and you'll be out in the streets in no time.
But he will not break her heart because he's good with relationships.
I know the guy personally, he relationships really well tbh.
OP - i suppose if you are a sociopath and strictly using the situation for career gains, can emotionally compartmentalize, and are very good at seducing women, then sure, go ahead. However, if the relationship goes sour, this MD may very well blackball you from the industry for a variety of reasons, and you will have very little if any recourse. What if his daughter says "this creepy guy was hitting on me...eeww"...etc...much more downside than upside (unless you won't be able to succeed on your own merits...in which case...go for it).
You only date the MDs daughter if you think you want to marry her. You have a limited time to date her as you basically have to propose before he chops off your balls, figuratively at work and literally as a father. If you can survive and endure these trials, you may have her hand in marriage. Unfortunately, when you get engaged and realize she is a crazy insane person, you better start looking for jobs before you break it off.
I made this mistake once. It's really situational as to whether this is a good idea. It's a very risky strategy, so I think it goes without saying that you should be careful. No one is going to be able to tell you whether you can pull this off. Even if you feel confident that you're good enough in relationships that it won't end badly, you don't fully control how the relationship may end.
Maybe it doesn't end and you get married, in which case, the MD will probably have your back and support your promotions on a regular schedule. But the likelier situation is that it doesn't end in marriage, in which case, you've got to thread the needle on the break-up. While it's doable, it's sort of like dating your best friend's sister. You really need to talk to your friend before you start trying to date his sister. It's a courtesy that should be extended to your boss as well.
In my case, I was introduced to my boss's daughter at a charity event by my boss. He wanted me to date his daughter. He later explained that he could either have no say whom his daughter dated or he could try to proactively help pick someone he liked. His daughter was objectively hot, but turned out to be bat-shit crazy. This presented loads of problems at work, and I eventually left the firm.
If you just want to date a rich girl, there are thousands of them that aren't your boss's daughter. If you just want to bang her once because it's naughty, maybe just go jerk off a few times and get that shit out of your head. I put less than a 10% chance this works out well for you, so just make sure the expected payout is worth it.
Ok now I’m super curious, how was she batshit crazy?
Just get her preggo
Ohhhh...so we're actually pretending like this guy isn't trolling?
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Great contribution.
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Never dated the daughter of a guy that I worked for, but did date the MD's daughter.
While brotherbear has some good points, I'm going to play devil's advocate. My experience with dating the MD's daughter was very positive:
impregnate the bitch!
Worked out for Shallow Hal.... why can't it for you.
Sounds to me like you are looking for an entrance opp not an exit opp
Hard to fool the MD at his own game, he knows what you're up to with this move.
Go for it
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