Eyes wide shut type parties
I just saw the movie and wondered if anything to this scale actually happens?
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I have been invited to variety of comparable parties in the past. These happen most often in societies or circles of friends where there is less religious attachment, more open dating, more often in cities (but they do happen in suburbs as well), more with couples without children, and more often through acquaintances rather than close friends or clients or colleagues.
It is normally expected that attending couples are real couples, but more often than not they just attend as a couple while they are in an open relationship or not even dating. A friend does these parties all the time and has a girl he takes with him to gain access.
It is not always an orgy, but is somewhat implied that you have sex in front of others or that you are watching others having sex. The alternative are parties where the men or women are paired up with others and then they disappear to a séparée.
Pretty common all over California. If you seek it, you will find it.
How many have you attending in the past year?
If you went to high school in LA or the Bay Area you probably went to a lot of parties where there was partial or complete nudity tbh.
A girl flashing isn't at all like an Eyes Wide Shut party...
https://www.messynessychic.com/2013/08/27/a-surrealist-parisian-dinner-…
Wild. I definitely do not envy this lifestyle.
When I lived in Salt Lake my roomate and his girlfriend used to go to parties like that up in the hills, masks and all. The dark side of the Mormons exists...
Where I am from, 75-100,000 person city in the south, these sort of things were not unheard of. In HS my parents used to share the country club gossip about the sex parties local "big hitters" got involved in. Was a direct overlap between the "fun parents" who let us have people over and the "sex club" parents.
I just want a woman to love me at this point. No sex party, no matter what size, can fill in the empty void in my soul.
I don’t know if a woman will be able to do that either mate 🥺
It SOUNDS like a challenge...
Am I the only one who thinks this is just gross?
nope, i'm with you
This is one of those things that seem really hot when you fantasize, but in reality would kinda unsettle you.
Yeah, I kind of regret clicking this post and finding out that the movie had some basis in reality
Yeah I generally think this is gross. I had a boss who was into this stuff. He was bi and went to parties like this. Super creepster. He was very open about it and talked to coworkers about it inappropriately. He even sent a picture from one of the places to me, which was disgusting and offensive. He was the COO of a company.
So... you gonna post the pic?
There’s usually drugs involved, if that helps explain it...
Yeah to be honest, my previous roommate gave me cocaine one night and having a threesome at that point seemed like the best idea ever. What a drug...
How many are autists?
Go to literally any bar where there are people over 40 and you will be hit on by couples into this lifestyle.
Can confirm, was clobbered as shit during Oktoberfest and sat in the lobby of our hotel to catch a breath, and this super old couple started flirting with me, outta nowhere, and wanted me to come to their hotel room upstairs or something. Was so drunk that I didn´t understand it until one of my mates pointed it out lmao.
Also happened to me a few times. It's never single women my age for some reason.
I just watched it because of this post out of curiosity and brother that was some strange shit. Kubrick sounds like he was one horny bastard
there are specific websites where you can learn about people organizing parties in your area and connect with them, or find another couple for swing. just google "swinger parties in my area" or smth like that. it's not as fun as you might think, but give it a try just to know for sure if it's your thing. usually it's not like everybody is fucking at the same time and having a time of their life. it's more like guys talk to girls, or couples to couples, and if girls are interested either go to separate rooms or have fun in common area, but you can't just pull out your dick and join like that, cause the girl hasn't given you consent. usually girls fuck somebody who they already know, usually organizers of the party and their close friends. so if you're coming there for the first time and your game is not really good, you will probably not fuck anybody. I would recommend to start with swing and just connect with other couples, and then you can start organizing your parties if you really like it.
^ the expert
I generally don't like strip clubs or anything like that either, but have been dragged along to them by bankers in NYC playing thousands for bottle service for everyone.
One time my friend told me to go to this party in NYC and there was a door password and I got in and it was St. Venus Theater. I do admit the girls were pretty hot (all the girls were basically topless) and it seemed like a classy affair.
Sure, they exist. Depends on the city tbh. In France, especially in Paris, there are dozens of these parties every week. It's usually for extremely classy/ attractive girls and wealthy/influential guys so it's not like you could get into the high-end ones as a nobody, but one might get lucky. From what I've heard, it's a unique experience but definitely have to be open minded
https://castleevents.com/
Found this website in case you're interested. Can't tell if it's legit.
I have good friends who have done things like this, but there's no masks, just secrecy and a vetting process. without exception, all grew weary of it and stopped frequenting them.
swinger parties are nowhere near as glamorous as the media portrays them to be.... talking from experience
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