Friends with a married woman

Is it healthy to have a friendship with a married woman, where:

1) You dated
2) She texts/calls you an awful lot

Is this dynamic normal? Have any of you monkeys experienced it? I would hate to be the cause of someone's issues.

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EtherBingeDepends. What kind of texts/calls are these?

A little beyond the line of appropriateness hence the question. I wont go into specifics but I'm not sure its cool to continue down this line.

 
BoxerRebellerIs it healthy to have a friendship with a married woman, where:

1) You dated 2) She texts/calls you an awful lot

Is this dynamic normal? Have any of you monkeys experienced it? I would hate to be the cause of someone's issues.

That's someone's wife man, just cut communication. It sounds like it's already inappropriate. If she's going to be a whore then let her whore it up with someone else. I'm not saying she's a whore because she's talking to you, but she is obviously craving attention from other men.

 
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BoxerRebellerIs it healthy to have a friendship with a married woman, where:

1) You dated 2) She texts/calls you an awful lot

Is this dynamic normal? Have any of you monkeys experienced it? I would hate to be the cause of someone's issues.

It's normal if you plan on fucking her again, otherwise no.
 
SirTradesaLot
BoxerRebellerIs it healthy to have a friendship with a married woman, where:

1) You dated 2) She texts/calls you an awful lot

Is this dynamic normal? Have any of you monkeys experienced it? I would hate to be the cause of someone's issues.

It's normal if you plan on fucking her again, otherwise no.

This is all I really needed to hear. Figured as much.

 
SirTradesaLot
BoxerRebellerIs it healthy to have a friendship with a married woman, where:

1) You dated 2) She texts/calls you an awful lot

Is this dynamic normal? Have any of you monkeys experienced it? I would hate to be the cause of someone's issues.

It's normal if you plan on fucking her again, otherwise no.
 
SirTradesaLot
BoxerRebellerIs it healthy to have a friendship with a married woman, where:

1) You dated 2) She texts/calls you an awful lot

Is this dynamic normal? Have any of you monkeys experienced it? I would hate to be the cause of someone's issues.

It's normal if you plan on fucking her again, otherwise no.
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If you're down with helping her have an affair, then no issue.

"You stop being an asshole when it sucks to be you." -IlliniProgrammer "Your grammar made me wish I'd been aborted." -happypantsmcgee
 

Speaking on this topic, I heard 50% of women in NYC cheat on their boyfriends/husbands. I always thought it was surprising. Anyone in NYC actually see this as being common?

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TeddyTheBearSpeaking on this topic, I heard 50% of women in NYC cheat on their boyfriends/husbands. I always thought it was surprising. Anyone in NYC actually see this as being common?

Yep pretty common. I like dating women in their 30s (don't ask its a fetish) and dude a lot of them are cheating. by that age too they're really good at it. that's why when i date someone, i like to date indian girls. they're pretty hot and for some reason 100x more loyal than any white girl.

My drinkin' problem left today, she packed up all her bags and walked away.
 

Well, I guess I wasnt the only one feeling like a dick about it. Just wondering how I'm supposed to cut off all contact without seeming like a dick.

 
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BoxerRebellerWell, I guess I wasnt the only one feeling like a dick about it. Just wondering how I'm supposed to cut off all contact without seeming like a dick.

Just tell her about how you asked for woman-advice on an internet forum and any sexual attraction she might have had for you should magically disappear.

Actually jackass, I didnt ask for woman advice.

 

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