Is anyone else disgusted with women?

I am a 22, soon to be 23, male and already think I am kind of done with women. I am not sure if its because I am bombarded with content of a very sexual/provocative nature on social media/internet that I am just so desensitised to women, or if its due to the fact that girls here in the UK seem to be very standoffish/nasty, or if covid has made me asexual, etc. but I feel nothing towards women anymore. Regardless of how attractive or friendly a girl may be - I don't want to talk, I don't want to pursue, I don't want anything. Is my brain broken? Am I capable of being a good husband one day?

I work-out, I have a great job, I am attractive, I am fairly social. I do catch people staring at me.

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Can confirm. No hot girls in UK. You must go to NYC (the Mecca).

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