Just met this girl and need some advice

Yo,I'm about to have my third date with this girl I recently met. She's really amazing but its clear to me that she's had kinky sex with a lot of guys. The problem is I've only had sex with three girls and never did anything kinky at all. While hooking up with this new girl last week, she made some comments saying I need to get better at one thing or another and I'm worried when I see her next I won't know how to please her. Please let me know where I should look to get some advice. Thanks.

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"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

Girls like confidence. 

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

I would suggest asking her what she likes in sex upfront and letting her take the lead. Also jerk off the day before so you don’t blow your nut in 10 seconds when you hook up with her again. 
 

Good luck. 

 
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Also jerk off the day before so you don't blow your nut in 10 seconds when you hook up with her again. 

Why are you saying this like we don't already jerk off daily? I jerk off 3 times a day. Once in the morning before I go to work (some cum leaks out in the office so I go to the restroom to clean it up), once right after I get home at night, then once right before bed. Then I just let the testicles recharge overnight.

 
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