Marry a sex symbol

I'm a guy in my early twenties, living in a metropolitan area. I'm basically conservative, coming from a southern town and stuff. But I've always liked really attractive women, like regally attractive. I've also never cared too much for a girl to be in the same type of line of work as me. I would, however, prefer a girl with similar grit.

I want to be with a sex symbol, only because they're independent, grinding it out to make money. I realized today that the definition of 'sex symbol' is changing with Instagram. If you go on there, there are many non-celebrity chicks that are 10s with banging bodies and millions of followers. Some of them pose nude, but all of them pose in at least partial nude with provocative photos. What's the pros and cons of actually marrying one of these chicks, even if they only do this in their 20s but stop after awhile? This is assuming I'm going to be a banker. Would it help me win deals or be a bad decision in ruining my career? What are your general thoughts?

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"I like having sex. I like when you get it like 'uh uh uh uh.' " - Frito, Not Sure's lawyer

or something like that

time is the coin of your life: be careful, lest others spend it for you - Carl Sagan
 

lol a lot of those blogger chicks are the backpack wearing types. I don't want the backpackers.. the girls i'm mostly interested in are going to probably be undercover trump supporters, might have fake lips, and only shop in Beverly hills

 

"we take so long to get anywhere because we keep taking pics of our feet" fucking gold

"I'm talking about liquid. Rich enough to have your own jet. Rich enough not to waste time. Fifty, a hundred million dollars, buddy. A player. Or nothing. " -GG
 

Do not think you can simply disregard the law of the Hot Crazy Matrix. See the graph:

Long story short if you marry a hard 9 instagram model she's going to suck and your mom is going to hate you but it's still probably worth it.

 
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If you want to find one of those girls check a fucking strip club... seriously what the fuck is this post even about... Cons? Wait till you meet her family.

And trust me if a girl feels the need post half naked to get a million instagram followers that's just the tip of the iceberg of shit you're going to have to deal with.. If you have ever dated anyone in your life I'm sure you can come up with at least 10 good reasons why marrying a girl like that might be a bad idea.. if you can't good luck on the banking career. Will a girl that poses half naked on instagram help you land deals... wtf... Yeah your wife was a slut when she was 22 please take my money...

Excuse me while I go contemplate the stupidity of the OP

Overwhelming grasp of the obvious.
 

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Uh, uh, come on, uh It be the same cats that wouldn't listen to my demo Now I want they ass in my limo cuz now I'm a sex symbol Intercontinental, L.A. airplay, just like Jay Leno Now all the labels out wanna send a memo To do a remix ya'll, but ____ say N-O
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Is your MM in nyc? you could try networking in a different city.. After months of dinners and at-home side projects, by the time word gets around, you've already made a solid connection at the BB and they'll be too eager to give you an offer before it's too late. lmao

 

You can't change a tiger's stripes. These people are toxic and doomed for a crash.

Let me hear you say, this shit is bananas, B-A-N-A-N-A-S!
 

My wife was a modeler but has never did things like pose half naked etc...she is giving me a happy life and is a good cook as well. She likes nice things in life and I also do, but I also know when to stop her.

 

Women who feel the need to flaunt their body in order to gain followers or likes on Instagram have a lot of psychological issues and as stated previously - it shows insecurity and the requirement for constant validation from others. I feel like this should be enough in and of itself.

On the hypothetical that you do marry this woman and have children, do you think that your above average salary will be enough to satiate her continuous need for validation in a materialistic way? Is that how you want to spend your hard earned money, on a woman who just so happened to get lucky in the gene pool with a 'phat' ass and great rack?

If you are doing this for validation from your peers, then you are an even bigger fool. Your peers will realize the same thing, she doesn't bring much to the table beside the physical attractiveness and discount codes for teeth whiteners.

If you want to marry a sex symbol, marry an actual sex symbol, not a woman who gets her tits out for 1000 likes and 20 DMs while promoting some protein brand you have never heard of.

Women who are physically appealing and Instagram famous will most likely have run-ins with pseudo-celebrities, college stars, etc. but that is all they are ever going to be, maybe they get lucky enough to be a baby mom to someone rich. They have presented themselves as an object and will forever be treated as such.

I could only imagine the immense sadness after marrying someone like this, as the moment after you ejaculate, in a state of Kenjataimu (Google it) you realize that you have married a glorified semen container who will eventually either cheat on you and take half of your shit, or leave you for a man who can fulfill her materialistic needs better.

TL;DR - Stay woke, and don't turn a hoe into a housewife.

'I'm jacked... JACKED TO THE TITS!!'
 

remember this guys, the more important the man, the less important the woman.

notice we don't give 2 flying fucks about a girl's occupation. in fact, if she tells you she's CEO, it might be a DETRACTOR.

then again, I'm a big supporter of traditional family values (woman in kitchen, run errands w the kids, etc). in NYC this is frowned upon, for some reason.

 

I think the hard parts in your post are: a) becoming a banker b) marrying a sex symbol

Otherwise this should be easily executable.

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Have a fling with a sex symbol, screw as many as you want, but marry ole reliable. Find yourself the hottest rock you can find that is a good cook, and tie her down. One that won't shift with the wind when the hurricane comes.

Most sex symbols are very fleeting, and are after superficialities. They'll leave you as soon as they catch sight of someone "better" (more wealthy, powerful, attractive... different etc.).

"A man can convince anyone he's somebody else, but never himself."
 

Sounds like all of these chicks are just lining up to marry you, so just have your pick and live the life bro

I'm talking about liquid. Rich enough to have your own jet. Rich enough not to waste time. Fifty, a hundred million dollars, buddy. A player. Or nothing. See my Blog & AMA
 

this kid is min/maxing his future wife as a virgin assumptions being made: OP will get a job in finance, OP will get his dick wet OP is a strong optimist.

heister: Look at all these wannabe richies hating on an expensive salad. https://arthuxtable.com/
 

Most of those chicks are famous b/c they have boyfriends that are photographers. Unless they want their pictures to have shitty lighting, they'll probably marry their respective slaves. They're for free, after all.

“I’m into, uh, well, murders and executions, mostly.”
 

I should probably say something useful in case OP is actually just a clueless fool and not trying to see how much shit he can catch.

As someone who's been with a couple girls that have done some..."modeling"...I can tell that you clearly haven't. This isn't something fun or desirable. It's a pain in the ass, and if you're not able to put up with their likely extreme emotional and mental damage, it'll wreck you if you're an amateur. At best, it's a very annoying inconvenience and certainly not something anyone wants to put up with long-term. Why do you think these girls are never in a steady, long-term relationship? They're fucking insane. They're even more sociopathic than the average woman. They've had so much trauma in their lives (more likely than not) that you'll never be able to fix it. You could try, but on average you're not the type of man that will be able to. Don't waste your fucking time.

If you think someone's self-worth is tied to IG followers, you perhaps need to do some serious soul-searching. Because likely, you have some issues with yourself that you need to work out as well. That's a very shallow way to approach things. Any woman you want to be in a relationship is not one who has a lot of IG followers. I promise you that. By the way, many of these "perfect 10" IG models look substantially less attractive after you take away the makeup, the ridiculous clothes (that I'd never let any girl I date wear in public), the editing, the filters, the camera, the lighting, and all the rest. So keep that in mind.

There are many beautiful, smart, well-read, well-educated, respectful, morally virtuous women out there, most of them are not to be found attention-whoring on social media. And increasingly, they're seemingly harder and harder to find in the US. 3rd wave feminism is a hell of a drug...

I think you need to focus on making the improvements you need to see in your life before you even thinking about "marrying someone extremely attractive" - otherwise you're in for a world of hurt. Anyone who writes a post like your first one at the top is absolutely going to get decimated by some narcissistic, machiavellian sociopath who they pick up in a Manhattan club. You're not cut out for it even if you want it. Focus on yourself, your career, making yourself smarter, sharper, more talented. Then you won't have any trouble finding someone who may possibly be worth your time for more than a night.

"When you stop striving for perfection, you might as well be dead."
 

Unless the girl is highly spiritually grounded or has ugly duckling syndrome, your 10 is going to be batshit crazy and at a time of insecurity will nail some side dude hippy with all the time in the world because you're pulling banker hours to pay for her Cartier diamonds and Bergdorf shopping habits.

Choose wisely, my friend.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 
"Isaiah_53_5" Unless the girl is highly spiritually grounded or has ugly duckling syndrome, your 10 is going to be batshit crazy and at a time of insecurity will nail some side dude hippy with all the time in the world because you're pulling banker hours to pay for her Cartier diamonds and Bergdorf shopping habits.

Choose wisely, my friend.

Isaiah this is very painful, it happend to me immediately after engagement so I left her and got married to someone else. But unfortunately she wasn't a 10, just too demanding and she sent me texts showing her chatting to a call centre dude after they had sex when I went for an all night prayer at church that Friday...lol

 
"Isaiah_53_5"because you're pulling banker hours to pay for her Cartier diamonds and Bergdorf shopping habits.

So accurate...love it

I'm talking about liquid. Rich enough to have your own jet. Rich enough not to waste time. Fifty, a hundred million dollars, buddy. A player. Or nothing. See my Blog & AMA
 

Yeah.

Hot chicks who are wifey / long term relationship material have to be significantly grounded in solid values.

They must know their worth comes from the core facet of life: service and helping others.

Most significantly hot chicks are insecure at the core (seriously) and constantly play tease and power games with nearly everyone they meet. These habits become a part of them so they are unconsciously doing it and have little control over it. If you are unaware of the consequences of your own actions, you often fall victim to circumstance.

"If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." - Bruce Lee
 

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