The reason men have trouble dating in 2021 is because they don't know their lane

We all want to be the fly guy, the handsome guy, the Mack, the baller, the comedian but in reality we're not and can't. We all can't be Ghost from power.

Men need to find their lane and stop trying to be the HNIC boss type. Women aren't stupid and can see through it. Plus by now I'm sure they have to be tired of the fronting. I know I am. When I meet a bro that's clearly fronting I just want to pat him on shoulder and say it ok bro, just be you.

You  need to embrace being yourself. it's 20121 we don't have to front anymore. It's no longer necessary. Nothing is wrong with being you.

Men need to stop chasing women that they're not suppose to have. Everything is about energy. If you're a good dude why the fuck are u chasing a bitch that wants to be on the scene? She'll have selfish energy and she'll end up with a selfish spouse.

You gotta get with the female equivalent of you and stop being delusional.

If you're a fat dude, this isn't to insult you but I'm using it as an example. Get with a fat chick that actually appreciate you. Stop embarrassing yourself on IG leaving comments on these chicks profiles . "Oh baby I wanna drink your bath water" That ho is reading that shit laughing. Have some dignity and at-least curse her out if u wanna say anything.

I digress. Yeah man we all gotta find our lane. Like me I know what I want. I just have to work on myself to get her. I have negative energy but I want somebody positive and upbeat. Somebody to nurture me and tuck me in at night. Kiss me on the forehead and tell me that I'm doing a good job.

Men need to find their lane. Stop chasing hoes. Y'all ignore all the other women that would actually make good wives.

There s a reason why our grand parents would get married to someone from the neighborhood. We destroy our foundation by bucking against the rules and grow old and alone for trying to do our own thing.

Enclosing: reality is the key to our salvation and mixed in with a little idealism. We all cant keep living these fantasy lifestyles because it stops progress and ultimately destroying the community. It might seem innocent but in actuality it's genocide. It's that dark when u peel back all the layers and visualize the ending

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So u looking for love? That is hard to find girls these days are all the same. Lack of charisma and personality... it’s tuff out here

 

Wow what an absolutely shallow post, you'll have no difficulty to find a girl in your lane

 

Humans are shallow. Read up on some redpill info, I suggest "The Rational Male" 

 

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