what is the biggest red flag in a relationship?
You all know what I mean. That little thing that, in hindsight, should've really told you to run when you found out...but you still stayed.
Posting "hot" pics on social media and being possessive about/hiding their phone.
Trying to alienate you from friends/family.
Trying to get you to abandon hobbies or activities you're passionate about.
Physically lashing out over minor frustrations (or frankly any kind of argument).
Specifically if you make more money than them (and assuming you haven't already made some sort of arrangement like they're going to be a stay-at-home SO who raises kids) them dropping all interest in having a career and proceeding to do nothing but spend money while expecting you to pick up the tab.
An SO who can be supportive of and make an effort towards participating in things you're interested in is a huge green flag. The only reasonable response of course is to reciprocate.
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Kids, Prior marriages
The biggest red flag, and not a preference, is how they handle arguments. Can this person sit down and talk through issues, can this person except blame, and apologize to move forward. People need to be open to seeing how their actions and non actions impact their SO.
Bad with money/their personal finances especially if they are years removed from college is not a good sign. There's no excuse for that. You can google anything personal finance related in about 5 minutes.
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