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I think it's a status thing. White people typically signal wealthier background. Or maybe they find them more attractive. God knows.

 
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I think it's a status thing. White people typically signal wealthier background. Or maybe they find them more attractive. God knows.

One of my white ex-colleagues has an Asian fetish, he's a 6/10 at best with a receding hairline but consistently pulls 9/10 asian chicks. I'm an 8-9/10 black man and can get 10/10 white/hispanic models easily, even easier than equivalent white men, but pulling even an 8/10 asian chick is a challenge. 

 

That's not true at all. I have an asian friend that exclusively only hooks up with athletes, two of them were black NBA players, so masculinity is definitely a factor. She grew up in Korea and also explicitly tells us she's not into asian men at all because they're not as masculine and and some of them have this weird sense of entitlement to asian women because it's significantly harder for them to pull women of other races compared to other races of men. This might be more of a commentary on mainland asian culture vs American asian culture, but she also complained that east asian culture encourages the men to be a lot cheaper with spending on their partners and tipping service workers, even if they came from a wealthy family, which also rubbed off on her the wrong way. I guess wealthy white men tend to be more generous?

 

I bet there is a Reddit thread somewhere about this

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InfraB

No secret everywhere you look, the Asian girl is dating a white man. I see some date black or latino guys, but its not as common.

I once asked this question to a Chinese woman, who moved to the states and had been here for over 5 years and her response was partly to do with integration as well as Asian men being too conservative, there is also the issue of skin complexion, which is also a thing in India.

SafariJoe, wins again!
 

Statistically, interracial marriage isn't all that common, and the most common pairing is white man + latina woman

 

Meh, I just think it’s a mathematical thing. You’re in a nation where 2/3 of the men are white so you’re going to see Asian women often with that mathematical majority. I still think it’s more common for Asian girls to date Asian men. 

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It isn’t though lol, it’s a weird cross-racial fetishization thing that’s basically unique to this pair among all others. You don’t see it with any other group in America. If you look at dating app statistics you also see it - Asian Women are literally the only race/gender combo that prefer another group (white men in this case) over their own group. 

 

Would agree that it’s about perceived masculinity + status in combination with Asian striverism. The above point that “Asian men are too conservative” (a common response I’ve seen when you actually ask Asian chicks this) is total bullshit lol. How many random alt right type people who are openly racist have an Asian girlfriend? It’s a meme. The absolute worst source for questions around “what are women thinking” is asking women. You’re going to get some bird brained cope bullshit answer when reality is more primal. 
 

My main question on the WMAF Problem is why do Asian guys attack white men in response? It’s a lame / weak bitter response. You should be attacking Asian women to reign them in. 

 

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