Books that Changed Your Perspective on Life

Hi all,

I just wanted to start a thread for great books that people recommend reading in their free time. Any suggestions would be appreciated. Although finance book recommendations are great, I really want to start reading books that will change my perspective on the world.

Cheers!

 

Start with these: Crime and Punishment by Dostoevsky- Covers morality, suffering, and judgement. Not a light read.

How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie- Great, simple book about dealing with people.

The Death of the West by Pat Buchanan- Essential reading about our current state of affairs.

The g-factor by Arthur Jensen- Psychology book about general intelligence and its heritability (aka think twice about pumping your seed into some dumb slut). Scientifically a very interesting read.

 
  1. The Emyth: Why Most Small Businesses Fail and What to Do About It by Gerber

(Have read at least 10 times at various stages of my life. Has completely different meaning at each stage. Captivating story about the evolution of a small business and IDing the various stages. Great read for anyone thinking about going out on their own or just being "entrepreneurial" .

  1. Good To Great by Collins

The whole fly wheel thing is brilliant. Aligning what you love, what you're great at, and monetizing it. When aligned, it's a Home Run. When not, can be good but NOT GREAT!

  1. Banker to the Poor by Muhammad Yunus (Nobel Prize) - Fascinating read about Grameen Bank, microlending, thinking outside the box / contrarian. He literally lifted millions out of poverty. Saw him give a speech on this topic. He's quite a character. Brought tears to my eyes.
 

Don't know. What I do know is at a personal level, it's a great formula for success. Not just because you ultimately make more money, but it's sustainable. Byproducts (again at the individual level) include:

  1. Because you're happier you're better to be around.
  2. When you're better to be around, interesting opportunities present themselves.
  3. You become a more positive person which leads to being a better spouse, parent and friend.
  4. Because you like what you do you have more energy, and therefore either do more of it or are more useful in other areas. (that's a big one- I've personally become quite involved in the community - coaching youth sports yr round for several yrs, becoming an advisory board member to a local law firm, guest hosting on a local financial radio show, etc.
  5. Picked up several personal friends as clients (which may seem easy but when you're dealing with their money, it's not. Lot of folks don't want you to know what they have.) 6 .Because of the revenue engine, was able to hire more staff to free myself up which has allowed more time to workout and improve my health.

I'm sure lots of others.

 

The Big Short. Although I love the movie, nobody really gets deep into thought about it because A) it happens so quickly and B) people want to believe its fiction or never will/had happen. Thats why the book made a big difference when i finished it. I truly got disappointed with the amount of unorthodox actions taken by individuals for their own personal gain. Truly crazy stuff.

 

Don't understand why MS is getting thrown at you, you truly need to read the book to fully understand what went on

 

An edible history of humanity. Quick read you can crank out in a day or two. I enjoyed it a lot. t shows how food has affected countries to succeed or fail. https://www.amazon.com/Edible-History-Humanity-Tom-Standage/dp/08027199…

Thinking Fast and Slow. This is one of the best books about figuring why people act the way they do, and how you can use psychology to your advantage. Very fun to read lots or little games or example to show you how each system works in your brain. https://www.amazon.com/Thinking-Fast-Slow-Daniel-Kahneman/dp/0374533555…

The origin of species: Darwin. Classic biology book. World changing.

Ben Franklin an american life: Walter Issacson. Favorite book ever.

Candide: Voltaire Funny book could be read in about 2-3 hours. While breaking it down it is very dark.

The United States Constitution- If you have not read though the constitution you should not read anything until you do. (You do not have to read all the amendments this would take you ages) Most important document in modern history.

The concept of Two liberties is not a book but rather a speech that was then printed. This document I read for the first time in college, and I recommend it to everybody. This will truly help you to learn what freedom really is and why nobody is actually free. If you close read this document it should take about a week to completely comprehend everything that is stated withing these pages. But when you do you will question everything. https://is.cuni.cz/studium/predmety/index.php?do=download&did=138013&ko…

If you want more suggestion PM me.

 

book of zhuangzi - "Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness."

book of liezi - "Strength should always be complimented by softness. If a branch is too rigid, it will break. Thus, the strong person knows when to use strength and when to yield, and good fortune and disaster depend on whether one knows how and when to yield."

 

HAHAHA! Should be required reading for any man looking to get married.

"If you have never considered the possibility of killing another person then you have never been through a divorce!" - Christopher Titus.

 

All three of the books below have affected the way I think about life,

  1. Mere Christianity by CS Lewis - Regardless of your religious beliefs, this is one of the best, if not the best book on understand the philosophical and theological beliefs of Christianity. If nothing else, you will better understand the most influential religion in the history of Western Civilization.
  2. Start With Why by Simon Sinek - Quite simply, it helps you cut through all the secondary things and helps you have a framework for understanding the primary motivations and passions in life.
  3. Leadership Excellence by Pat Williams - Not a popular book, but my favorite book on leadership. It shows what it means to lead with the mindset of a humble servant, which is probably the toughest thing to do.
 
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Ok slightly lit but compelled to reply.

I have read a lot of shit over the last 10- 15 years and I have come to the conclusion (props to Taleeb for helping me along the way) that if you want meaningful go old. Really old.

If something has stuck around for hundreds of years there must be a reason. Hell, even if it's utter shite the fact that is it has stuck around means it has had a meaningful impact on the development of thought in the modern world so it is at least useful from that perspective.

The thing that has struck me about reading older material is that these were people who actually thought about how they lived their lives, what makes a good life and how they can live a good life. This was not about scoring a mutli-million dollar book deal or getting your balls licked by Jimmy Kimmel. This was the most serious shit in the world to these guys.

That is incredibly valuable insight and it is timeless. Revisiting the works of great thinkers throughout history has had an immense impact on my life.

So here is my advice.

  1. Read "How to read a book" (I know) by Mortimer Adler. This is not exciting stuff but it really helped me to get more from reading.

  2. Have a look through the list of recommended books in Adler's book. What topics interest you? pick something you think you will like.

  3. If you want some suggestions I would recommend the stoics. Stoic philosophy is incredibly relevant to the modern times we live in. There is a lot of good shit about the world today but as a society we face unique challenges unseen previously and a lot of aspects of Stoicism are tailor made for dealing with this shit. As a start read Seneca and Marcus Aurelius Meditations.

It is my opinion that from the perspective of living a good fulfilling happy life there is no more useful single book in the history of mankind than Meditations.

  1. I do enjoy the guilty pleasure of a book written from the age of indoor plumbing from time to time. I think Taleeb is a great thinker. I love all his stuff and highly recommend it. Signal and the noise by Nate Silver did have an impact on my thinking. Interesting book. Charles Duhigg "The Power of Habit" is a shocking little book, 95% drivel, but the concept it talks about is incredibly powerful and understanding habit and using it as a tool has had a big impact for me personally.
 

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. Written decades ago by a fellow who spent his career interviewing successful people including Andrew Carnegie. The principles in this books quite literally change your mind and thinking for the better.

 

I've always enjoyed reading, so I do it a lot and I can relate to a lot of the books on this list. So I'll leave out the ones that are already on here and I'll eliminate the "really, really good" books from the ones that really changed my life (as the OP intended).

So that comes down to only one book (and I'm surprised no on has mentioned it):

Mastery by Robert Greene.

This book gave me a completely different outlook on what to do with the rest of my life, how to invest my time, views on mentors, views on learning & persevearance. I really think that my life has changed for the better (not that it was terrible before!) since reading this book.

Plus, this book covers a lot of ground. I would challenge anyone to read this book and have that person say, "I didn't learn anything". Theres literally something everyone can learn from this book.

 
  • Governing the World by Mark Mazower
  • Ugly Americans by Ben Mezrich
  • The Other Wes Moore by Wes Moore
  • The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness
  • From the War on Poverty to the War on Crime: The Making of Mass Incarceration in America by Elizabeth Hilton
 

The Great Gatsby - Despite being written in the 20s, the story sheds light on social issues that are still relevant today like wealth inequality. It's one of the few books that still gives me a different perspective after having read it 5+ times. Also helps that it's a quick read.

Principles (by Ray Dalio) - Working through this one and it has a lot of great lessons that someone can apply to their careers as well as their personal lives. Not a challenging read.

 

Will sound silly but "Rich Dad, Poor Dad" by Robert Kiyosaki completely changed the way I view money and the importance of being an owner of capital vs. labouring for someone elses' capital. I also really enjoyed both Atlas Shrugged and the Fountainhead. I'm not a huge fan of Ayn Rand but I found both books give a really interesting take on the concept of individualism and the libertarian mindset.

 
StrictlyNovice:
I really want to start reading books that will change my perspective on the world.
Specifically related to this are two perspective-type books I read. The first is: "The Price of Inequality: How Today's Divided Society Endangers Our Future" - Stiglitz. The second is a direct rebuttal to this: "The Upside of Inequality: How Good Intentions Undermine the Middle Class" - Conard.

If you read both it gives you a really good look into two completely different perspectives.

 

Yeah, the entire study of behavioral economics and body of research around how we make decisions is so interesting. Reminds me of a scene in WestWorld where they say something along the lines of how all human choices are just the interaction of ~10k different variables and easy to be mapped [sorry for a small spoiler if anybody isn't up to speed]. A bit frightening to learn how we're all susceptible to the same pitfalls

 

To kill a mockingbird is an all-time favorite. Others that come to mind are

Memoirs of a Geisha by Arthur Golden Between Shades of Gray by Ruta Sepetys And the mountains echoed by Khalid Hosseini How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie The monk who sold his Ferrari.. Don't remember the author

 

If you're considering the entrepreneurial path: * The Hard Thing About Hard Things - Ben Horowitz (founder turned VC) * Zero to One - Peter Thiel (another founder turned VC) * Creativity Inc - Ed Catmull (CEO of Pixar) * Becoming Steve Jobs - Brent Schlender (a better perspective of Jobs' entrepreneurial Hero's Journey than Isaacson's biography)

If you're wondering why public policy is so crazy: * Thinking Fast and Slow - Daniel Kahneman * The Undoing Project - Michael Lewis (if you're too lazy to read Kahneman's original ;-) * The Righteous Mind - Jonathan Haidt * The Fatal Conceit - F. A. Hayek * Human Action - Ludwig von Mises

 

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