Where do PE bros hang out? - Boston and NYC

Have been in public markets my whole career and recently interested in figuring out how private markets work. I would love to make friends in the space and have been trying to figure out where I can go that has a high concentration of PE people (from lower levels to higher ups). 

I'm thinking about places like bars frequented by PE people so I could just strike up a conversation, buy a beer or two, and just really pick some PE brains. 

I would greatly appreciate any suggestions! Thank you.

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Yale Club. or Naya

Jokes aside, I think your best bet is going to be networking with people directly. Just shoot alums or 2nd degree connections a LinkedIn message and hop on the phone or buy them lunch. There's no PE bar where you can just show up and reliably have PE guys willing to talk to you. You would waste weeks before finding any meaningful conversation. Most people work very long hours in PE and spend their limited free time on their personal lives

 

Thank you. I was hoping at least some people in Pvt Markets would have a passion for the markets and would want to talk to people about it… 

Guess that much is different from public markets.

When in doubt, use more peanut butter
 

Agree with other guy - it's not that people don't want to chat, it's just 1. incredibly low-yield to cold approach at a bar, and 2. people are generally happy to talk, but maybe not looking to do so during their limited free time when they are out with people.

Keep it during work hours and via work channels and your audience will be much easier to find + more receptive

 

Yale Club. or Naya

Jokes aside, I think your best bet is going to be networking with people directly. Just shoot alums or 2nd degree connections a LinkedIn message and hop on the phone or buy them lunch. There's no PE bar where you can just show up and reliably have PE guys willing to talk to you. You would waste weeks before finding any meaningful conversation. Most people work very long hours in PE and spend their limited free time on their personal lives

I'm out like 3-4x nights a week when not on a deal and if somebody actually intelligent talks to me I'm down to chat always 

 

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